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AITAH for losing interest in a girl who slept with someone else while we dated?
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AITAH for losing interest in a girl who slept with someone else while we dated?

I (21M) met this girl (21F-Jane) about 6 months ago and I we connected over mutual interests. Conversations were flowing really well and even shared some friends so it was pretty easy to find time to hang out in groups. Eventually I work up the courage to ask her out and she accepts. Our dates went along very nicely so of course we keep going out for 4 months now.(About 12 proper dates and ...

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AITA for breaking up with my GF after she gave away my dog…. AND LIED ABOUT IT?
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AITA for breaking up with my GF after she gave away my dog…. AND LIED ABOUT IT?

I (29M) had a German Shepherd named Max. He wasn’t just a dog—he was my best friend. I’ve had him for 10 years, since he was a puppy. He’s been with me through everything. My girlfriend (23F), however, always complained about him. She said he was “too big,” “too much work,” and that she “hated how much attention I gave him.” I thought she was just being dramatic—until I came home one day an...

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AITA for Leaving My Own Birthday Dinner Because My Girlfriend Turned It Into a Proposal for Herself?
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AITA for Leaving My Own Birthday Dinner Because My Girlfriend Turned It Into a Proposal for Herself?

I (28M) had my birthday dinner last weekend, and my girlfriend, Sarah (27F), offered to plan it. I was excited because I usually keep things low-key, but she said she wanted to “make it special.” She booked a nice restaurant and invited close friends and family. Everything was going great until it was time for dessert. The waiter brought out a cake, but instead of my name, it said: “Will You Ma...

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AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday?
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AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday?

I 27M recently hit a small parlay win and decided to do som**hing special for my girlfriend 25F. We have been together for almost a year and things have been good but she always says she wants me to plan more thoughtful dates. So I booked us a reservation at this really nice restaurant she always talks about. Hard to get into. Amazing chef. I spent $800 total on the reservation, drinks include...

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AITAH For refusing to remove my husband’s cane as my sister requested?
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AITAH For refusing to remove my husband’s cane as my sister requested?

My (f) younger sister (f) moved in with my and my husband (m) days ago. She was involved in a very bad relationship with her hopefully soon to be her ex-boyfriend. She came to stay with us after they had a huge fight. She's in a bad place mentally because of it. I told her that this is her home (not literally of course) and that she's welcome to stay for as long as she could. Well, last nig...

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AITAH for telling my fiancé I won’t help pay the mortgage?
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AITAH for telling my fiancé I won’t help pay the mortgage?

For some background, I, 29F and my fiancé 30M have been together for 10 years. We had a baby back in 2020 and I lost my job around the same time. Our lease to our apartment was up and my grandma offered for us to move in with her so we did. We basically had our own little apartment rent free. I had thrown the idea of going to school out there and everyone agreed it was a good idea, my fiancé p...

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AITA For canceling on our family cruise?
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AITA For canceling on our family cruise?

So, my parents wanted to do a cruise for the holidays. They invited me (25f), my boyfriend (27M), my brother (28M), and his girlfriend (26F). My brother (let’s call him “James”) has always been the golden child. Some backstory: Back in high school, when James was discovered to be selling pills, he was just “going through a phase”. Meanwhile, when I got caught smoking w**d, my parents threate...

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AITAH for forcing a DNA test on my kids because of my wife’s past in***elity?
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AITAH for forcing a DNA test on my kids because of my wife’s past in***elity?

I have been married to my wife for 10 years. Early in our relationship, she cheated on me. After a lot of therapy and rebuilding, I forgave her and we decided to move forward. We now have two children, a 7-year-old son and a 4-year-old daughter. Recently, I stumbled across messages from an old friend that dredged up feelings of doubt. These messages weren’t about new in***elity but reminded me...

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AITAH for not wanting to eat my hairy wife?
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AITAH for not wanting to eat my hairy wife?

My wife and I are very into health and natural trends. We eat well and are both in good physical shape, sticking to Whole Foods. Within the last year, as part of our health journey, she’s stopped shaving her…. Private area. Without getting to graphic, since we’ve been married, we have a daily nightly ritual where I spend around 30 minutes on her with my mouth before bed while she sips wine and ...

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AITA for refusing to do anything around the house because my wife insisted on staying home with our child
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AITA for refusing to do anything around the house because my wife insisted on staying home with our child

I(28m) have been with my wife (27f) for 4 years married for 1. I'm an electrician and she is an accountant, I make about 60k a year and she makes about 55k. 7 months ago we had our first child, my wife was supposed to go back to work 2 months ago (she took the maximum maternity leave her company allows, 6 months which she started 1 month before labor). When it was time to resume work my wife to...

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AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me?
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AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me?

I 21(F) have been dating my 22(M) boyfriend for 4 years now. We recently started talking about our future together and the kids issue came up. He has known for a long time now that I've always been iffy about kids. He, on the other hand, insists that he likes kids, and would like to have them in the future. This issue has often caused a ma*sive strain on our relationship, but we've chosen to c...

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AITA for doing nothing for the child my ex-wife had from her affair even now that I have primary custody of our kids?
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AITA for doing nothing for the child my ex-wife had from her affair even now that I have primary custody of our kids?

Six years ago I (36m) learned that my ex-wife (37f) was cheating on me. I ended our marriage and filed for divorce but everything was delayed because she was pr****nt. Once her child was born and it was es**blished that I was not the biological father, my name was removed from the birth certificate and the bio father's name was added. They were a couple at this point. Throughout we shared 5...

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