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UPDATE: AITAH for crying when my boyfriend let his best friend's wife alter the dish I made for dinner?
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UPDATE: AITAH for crying when my boyfriend let his best friend's wife alter the dish I made for dinner?

I think with the way this post blew up and what happened because of a POST, I should clear up some things. I never asked if I should leave my boyfriend for this. I asked if this was an overreaction; my crying. But having thousands of people tell me this was racially charged, Ellie wanted power, my bf is s**tty, etc, my brain went haywire. Bf called yesterday and when I got there (his house) ...

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AITAH for no longer hanging out with my niece and nephew because their mom moved on from my brother’s death?
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AITAH for no longer hanging out with my niece and nephew because their mom moved on from my brother’s death?

Around 7 months ago, my brother pa*sed away and left behind his wife, his son who’s 10, and his daughter who’s 8. My brother and I always had a close bond, and I was also a really close uncle to my niece and nephew. When my brother pa*sed away, everyone took it really hard, my SIL was inconsolable, and my immediate priority was just to be there for my niece and nephew and help through this. ...

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AITAH: I feel that my daughter in law is leaving me out of her wedding dress shopping
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AITAH: I feel that my daughter in law is leaving me out of her wedding dress shopping

My husband and I are paying for my son and his fiancé’s wedding (the entire cost). I offered to also pay for her wedding dress and she is insisting to my son that she wants to choose her own wedding dress and pay for it herself. I’ve now found out she’s booked a holiday abroad to look for wedding dresses with her best friend, mum and her aunt (mum’s sister). I only found this out after I asked...

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AITA for telling my boyfriend I’m getting an abortion no matter what he says?
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AITA for telling my boyfriend I’m getting an abortion no matter what he says?

Ok so here’s the situation. I (24F) found out I’m pr****nt a few weeks ago, and to be honest, I’m not ready to have a kid. Like, AT ALL. I’m still in school, working part-time, and barely making ends meet. I’m on birth control, but I guess it failed. My boyfriend (26M) and I have only been together for about 8 months, and while I care about him, we’re not in some perfect, fairy-tale relationsh...

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AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter?
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AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter?

My sister and I are both pr****nt. This is her second child and my first. We're both having boys. When my sister had her daughter three years ago her BFF was pr****nt at the same time. My sister complained for 8 months that they didn't have any idea what to name my niece and then all of a sudden she had a name right before she gave birth. After my niece was born and her name was announced, my ...

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AITAH for refusing to accept that I‘m gay after my gf said she now identifies as a male?
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AITAH for refusing to accept that I‘m gay after my gf said she now identifies as a male?

I’m very liberal actually but I don’t know about this one. She doesn’t even present a tad bit as masculine, just told me she is now a male and I should accept her new pronouns he/him and gender. Which is fine I guess because who am I to tell them they need to present a certain way to be deemed worthy of their gender - but does that really make me gay/bi now? I’m a dude and I support her and al...

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AITAH for telling my ex wife she cannot forbid me from walking her daughter down the aisle just because I cheated on her
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AITAH for telling my ex wife she cannot forbid me from walking her daughter down the aisle just because I cheated on her

My ex wife and I divorced a couple years ago. We were married for 14 years and during that time, I also developed a strong bond with her daughter. However, my ex wife and I divorced a couple years ago after I cheated on her. I take full responsibility for it and don’t really have any excuses for it. I still regret it to this day, and I know it really hurt my ex wife a lot. I really thought ...

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AITA for Asking My Wife to Quit Hiking with Another Man?
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AITA for Asking My Wife to Quit Hiking with Another Man?

My wife (34F) has always been outdoorsy and loves hiking and camping. I (36M) am more of a homebody. We’ve been married for six years, and while we’ve always had our differences, we’ve made it work. But over the last year, things have changed. She joined a hiking group last summer, and there’s this guy, Jake, in the group who she’s gotten really close to. At first, I didn’t think much of it...

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AITA for giving my ring back after my fiancé made a comment to his guy friends regarding why we haven't gotten married?
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AITA for giving my ring back after my fiancé made a comment to his guy friends regarding why we haven't gotten married?

My fiancé and I (both 30) have been together for 8 years and engaged for 4 years. We got engaged right before COVID really hit and obviously that put a huge halt on any sort of planning and then from there forward, life events halted it more (became homeless, ended up pr****nt and having our child, now we are back on our feet but not financially where we could be YET). Back roughly 5 months ag...

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My fiancé wants me to put my dog up for adoption I refuse. But he is allergic AITAH?
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My fiancé wants me to put my dog up for adoption I refuse. But he is allergic AITAH?

Me (28F) & my fiancé (30M) have been together for 3 years, engaged for 6 months. I have a 6-year-old golden retriever named Max who I’ve had since he was a puppy. He’s my best friend, has gotten me through a lot emotionally, and is genuinely part of my family. My fiancé recently moved in with me, and we discovered that his dog allergy is worse than he thought. He gets itchy eyes, sneezing fits...

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AITAH for finding out I’ve been unknowingly paying rent to my husband and his mom for TWO YEARS?
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AITAH for finding out I’ve been unknowingly paying rent to my husband and his mom for TWO YEARS?

I (31F) have been married to Brian (33M) for two years. Right after the wedding, we moved into an apartment he said was a "great deal" from a family friend. We agreed to split rent and utilities 50/50 to keep things "equal" since we were starting fresh and wanted to avoid money fights. So I’ve been sending him $700/month just for the rent this whole time. Three days ago, at a BBQ, I overhea...

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AITA for refusing to comply by my ex-wife's husband's rules about what my kids can eat so they can go to their mom's house?
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AITA for refusing to comply by my ex-wife's husband's rules about what my kids can eat so they can go to their mom's house?

My ex-wife and I (both in our 30s) divorced 7 years ago. We two boys together aged 8 and 9. My ex-wife remarried two years ago and her husband brought his daughter and son into the marriage. About five months after they got married my ex's husband sent me a list of foods I could not feed my kids because his daughter is allergic and whenever my boys are at their house his daughter struggles wit...

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