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AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend move in with me because of his bad habits?
Relationship
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AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend move in with me because of his bad habits?

I (29F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend "Mike" (31M) for about a year and a half. We’ve been talking about moving in together, and he recently brought it up seriously, saying he wants to take the next step. At first, I was excited, but now I’m having doubts, and I’m starting to feel like I might be the a*shole. Mike has some habits that I’ve found hard to deal with, even thoug...

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AITAH for being angry my tax refund paid off my husbands child support
Parenting
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AITAH for being angry my tax refund paid off my husbands child support

My husband and I filed our taxes jointly this year for the past two years. I was completely unaware that he had $7,000 in unpaid child support—I thought he was making regular monthly payments. We were expecting a refund, but only $175 was deposited. I feel blindsided, v***ated, and taken advantage of. When I brought this up, he dismissed my feelings and told me I should be grateful the chil...

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AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with my husband?
Relationship
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AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with my husband?

My (33F) dad pa*sed away about five months ago, and it still feels surreal. We had a bit of a complicated relationship toward the end — we didn’t talk much the last year, but he still left me a sizable inheritance. Around $120k. It was unexpected, honestly, and I’ve been pretty careful with it. It came directly to me, not to both of us, and there were no conditions. My husband (35M) was sup...

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AITAH For not getting on an elevator with only a woman on it?
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AITAH For not getting on an elevator with only a woman on it?

I (25m) have been living in my apartment complex for a few years now and I usually take the elevator when I leave for work during the weekday, most of the time it's just me in it. About two weeks ago, I was about to go into the elevator when I saw a woman, about my age, in it and nobody else. My mom always told me what to do so I don't make women uncomfortable; don't walk behind them on the sid...

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AITAH for wanting to get an abortion despite my boyfriend wanting me to keep it and have his baby?
Relationship
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AITAH for wanting to get an abortion despite my boyfriend wanting me to keep it and have his baby?

I found out I was pr****nt on Friday. It was not planned. I'm in my final year of community college (planning on transferring to a 4 year university this fall) and having a baby is not on my bingo card. I live paycheck to paycheck and I'm already in debt for having student loans. I live with two roommates as it is and I still struggle because I work part time at a fast food place. My boyfri...

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AITA if I break up with my bf after he asked to have my friend join in?
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AITA if I break up with my bf after he asked to have my friend join in?

My boyfriend (23M) and I (20F) were showering after getting at it the other night when he randomly asked, "Would you ever let another girl join in?" I laughed, thinking he was joking, so I played along and said, "Hmm, with who?" expecting him to say som**hing ridiculous or to make some joke. Instead, he casually went, "I don't know... maybe your friend Olivia?" I just kind of froze for a...

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AITAH For asking my (32M) girlfriend (32F) to break down how marriage would benefit me?
Relationship
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AITAH For asking my (32M) girlfriend (32F) to break down how marriage would benefit me?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. At the beginning of our relationship, I told her that marriage wasn't in the cards for me as I don't see how it would benefit me in any way. She seemed to understand and accept this. For some background, I'm a Software Engineer at a pretty big hedge fund so I'm living fairly comfortable. My girlfriend works as a potter, she doesn't bring in ...

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AITAH for telling a woman her child is welcome in my home, but she isn’t, because of her criminal record
Parenting
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AITAH for telling a woman her child is welcome in my home, but she isn’t, because of her criminal record

My husband (28m) and I (27f) have a five year old son, who just started kindergarten this past fall. He has met a boy named Sam, who he has decided is his best friend. My son has had a lot of playdates in the past, because we tried hard to socialize him well from a young age. He has been asking if his friend Sam can come over for a playdate. Sure, no problem. I wrote a note with my name and...

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AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off?
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AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off?

I (19F) live with my boyfriend (29M) in Texas. I've always used condoms with him and that is som**hing we both agreed on from the beginning. I'm not on birth control, and he's never had an issue with this, or so I thought. Last night, we were being intimate. He put on a condom like always, and I got on top of him and started riding him. Halfway through he turned me over and started having s*x w...

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AITAH for telling my boyfriend I wouldn't date him if he was trans
Relationship
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AITAH for telling my boyfriend I wouldn't date him if he was trans

I (18F) have been dating my bf, C (19M) for about two years. Our relationship is usually pretty good, but recently we had this really weird conflict where I feel like I'm being gaslighted into feeling like the villain. The other day, me and C were at his house, watching tv, and then he suddenly asked me. "Would you still date me if I was trans?" I am 100% a cishet girl, and although I am an al...

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AITAH for refusing to attend my brother’s “funeral” because he faked his death to teach me a lesson
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AITAH for refusing to attend my brother’s “funeral” because he faked his death to teach me a lesson

My (26F) brother, Jason (28M), has always been a bit… dramatic. He thrives on pulling elaborate pranks and “teaching life lessons” that no one asked for. A few weeks ago, I forgot to pick him up from the airport because I was stuck at work, and my phone d*ed. He ended up taking an Uber home, but he was clearly mad and kept saying things like, “What if som**hing bad happened to me? Would you ev...

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AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop hugging a guy she hooked up with?
Relationship
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AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop hugging a guy she hooked up with?

My girlfriend (30F) and I (32M) keep coincidentally running into a guy she hooked up with about a year ago before we were dating. Every time they notice each other they exchange a hug, and a few words. There’s nothing flirtatious about the hugs, but it makes me uncomfortable knowing they hooked up, and that she feels the need to hug him instead of just waving and saying hi in pa*sing. I th...

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