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Cousin offered to photograph our wedding “as a gift” — now he’s billing us. AITA for refusing to pay?
Family Conflict
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Cousin offered to photograph our wedding “as a gift” — now he’s billing us. AITA for refusing to pay?

Got married recently. My cousin is a professional wedding photographer and said “As my gift to you two, I would be happy to take the photos at your wedding.” We told him we didn’t want him to feel obligated to do that or have him feel burdened with work during this celebratory weekend. He said he was happy to do it. We repeatedly expressed how grateful we were and made sure to tag his bus...

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AITAH for leaving my family without a turkey after my mom criticized my fiancé and said she wouldn’t be a good wife and mother?
Family Conflict
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AITAH for leaving my family without a turkey after my mom criticized my fiancé and said she wouldn’t be a good wife and mother?

A few weeks ago, I got engaged to my fiancé Julia. I love her very much and 100% sure she’s the one I want to marry. I’ve always been close to my mom, but sadly, Julia has never been her cup of tea. Julia is very career oriented, and cannot cook or decorate to save her life. My mom, on the other hand, prides herself on being a great cook and having the house perfect. In the past, she’s expr...

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AITA for refusing to let my sister wear white to my wedding and kicking her out when she showed up in it?
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AITA for refusing to let my sister wear white to my wedding and kicking her out when she showed up in it?

I (27F) got married two weeks ago, and it was supposed to be the happiest day of my life. My sister (31F), who I have a complicated relationship with, decided to test me in the worst way possible. We’ve never been close, she’s always tried to one-up me, even during family events. It’s exhausting, but I figured she’d at least behave at my wedding. Months ago, when I sent out the dress code, ...

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AITAH for telling my wife to stay in our own home instead of sleeping at her sister’s all the Time?
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AITAH for telling my wife to stay in our own home instead of sleeping at her sister’s all the Time?

I don’t even know where to start. I’m tired. Like… soul deep tired. Every night, I get home from work exhausted, sweaty, starving and guess what? I open the door to a quiet, dark house. No wife. No dinner. No note. Just me and the same cold silence. She’s always at her sister’s. Like, always. Not just visiting for a few hours sleeping there. Most nights of the week. Sometimes I don’t see h...

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AITA for refusing to do my boyfriend's laundry after he told his mom I "don't do anything" around thee house?
Family Conflict
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AITA for refusing to do my boyfriend's laundry after he told his mom I "don't do anything" around thee house?

So, I (26F) live with my boyfriend (28M). We’ve been together for 3 years, living together for 1. We both work full-time, but I also cook, clean, do laundry, grocery shop, handle bills, take care of our cat. He’ll sometimes take out the t**sh or wash a dish, but that’s about it. I’ve brought it up before, and he says he’ll "try to do more" but never really follows through. Last weekend, we ...

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AITA for giving the baby my last name?
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AITA for giving the baby my last name?

So here is the dilemma - me (28f) and my boyfriend (30m) have been dating for 3 years, but we are not married. Moreover, he proclaims that he doesn't believe in formal marriage and says it's a scam for men. Recently we've had an "oops" and I got pr****nt, and while it wasn't planned, we talked about children before and both wanted to be parents eventually. However, he wants to give the baby hi...

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AITAH for calling my uncle a pedo?
Family Conflict
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AITAH for calling my uncle a pedo?

My uncle (38M) and I (F18) have always had a very good and close relationship, but he recently told me som**hing that completely shocked me. He admitted he’s dating his neighbor’s 16-year-old daughter. The neighbor (35F) is someone he’s been friends with for years, and she’s understandably furious about it. Their other mutual friends and neighbors are too. He came to me, complaining about h...

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**AITA for refusing to let my sister use my wedding as a gender reveal party?**
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**AITA for refusing to let my sister use my wedding as a gender reveal party?**

Hey, Reddit! So, here’s the deal. I (29F) am getting married in about two months to my wonderful fiancé (31M). We’ve been planning this wedding for over a year, and honestly, it’s been a bit of a circus, but we’re finally getting everything together. Enter my sister (26F), who’s pr****nt with her first child. Super exciting for her and all, yay babies! Now, my sister is one of those Pintere...

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AITAH for telling my husband I want his mom banned from the delivery room?
Family Conflict
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AITAH for telling my husband I want his mom banned from the delivery room?

I'm 34 weeks pr****nt with our first baby. My husband (35M) and I are thrilled, but his mother (62F) has been making this whole thing about her. She constantly refers to my unborn baby as “her baby.” She has a list of nicknames picked out and keeps calling herself "mama two." She even offered to b***stfeed if I “can’t produce enough.” (Yes, really.) I told my husband I want my mom in the delive...

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AITA for telling my Mother that I will not allow my Child to call her any name except Grandma?
Family Conflict
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AITA for telling my Mother that I will not allow my Child to call her any name except Grandma?

I (26m) am engaged to my fiance (23f) and a little bit after the proposal we found out she was pr****nt. We were thrilled and after some time told the family and friends about it. Everyone is very excited for her to be born. (Yes we found out it’s a girl and that’s what we were hoping for). My mother is the type of woman who hates the idea of getting old. She tries to hide it in anyway she ...

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AITA for thinking it's crazy for my boyfriend to say that he would break up with me if I gave another person CPR to save their life (mouth to mouth)? He said it's just a boundary of his and it would be fine for him to give CPR as he plans to be a doctor (but I can't).
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AITA for thinking it's crazy for my boyfriend to say that he would break up with me if I gave another person CPR to save their life (mouth to mouth)? He said it's just a boundary of his and it would be fine for him to give CPR as he plans to be a doctor (but I can't).

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, we live together, and we've always said that we plan to marry each other-- he constantly tells me that we're soulmates. Two weeks ago, he really messed up big time and we ended up breaking up-- but after, he begged me crying, telling me I'm his soulmate and he'd rather d*e than be with someone else, etc. etc., so I agreed to think abo...

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AITAH for making my parents feel guilty about voting for Trump when I am about to get DOGE’d?
Family Conflict
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AITAH for making my parents feel guilty about voting for Trump when I am about to get DOGE’d?

Also I have worked for the IRS for just over 4 years, and while it has hardly been a dream job, it has been reliable employment in otherwise turbulent times these past few years. That of course all started to change with DOGE, the new administration, etc. Disclaimer: I have not been laid off yet, and nothing is set in stone. But with tax season having pa*sed they’ve been ramping up the lay off...

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