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AITA for implementing a “you cook you clean rule” and leaving her to clean up her dishes after she made pasta
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AITA for implementing a “you cook you clean rule” and leaving her to clean up her dishes after she made pasta

My wife and I switch off cooking, both of us cook twice a week and the days neither of us cook it’s a leftover night or takeout. We used to have the person that didn’t cook do the dishes after the meals. I clean as a cook, so when it is my night there are very few dishes for her to clean up. When she cooks, I swear she uses almost every single dish or pot for her meals. It is a disaster in the...

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AITA for telling my sister my feelings about her have not changed after she confronted me for telling her fiance the truth?
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AITA for telling my sister my feelings about her have not changed after she confronted me for telling her fiance the truth?

Seven years ago my sister had an affair with my (ex)husband. We were still married at the time, I believed happily, and she was his mistress. I caught them together and banished both of them from my life. I divorced him. I told her to get away from me and the two of them stayed together for a couple of years and had a child. My sister tried to reconcile with me 5 different times. I rejected...

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AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter?
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AITA for saying that my relationship with my son is more important than my brother's relationship with his daughter?

My (43M) brother (43M) has a difficult relationship with his daughter (25). His wife comes from a conservative christian church, and when they got married after he got her pr****nt, he pretty much drank their flavor-aid. Lo and behold when she's 17 his daughter comes out as a lesbian. This was an awkward situation to say the least, and it ended up with her living with our parents for the rest ...

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AITA for reporting my fiancé missing after he went out at 10pm for deodorant and disappeared for 7 hours?
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AITA for reporting my fiancé missing after he went out at 10pm for deodorant and disappeared for 7 hours?

My (30F) fiancé (33M) went out on Sat**day night to the store for a couple things he needed (I.e. deodorant) around 10pm while I stayed home with our kid (2F). He told me he was making a quick run to the store and would be right back. He borrowed my car and left and I thought nothing of it. Fast forward to midnight and he’s still not back. I sent him texts and called but he didn’t answer. At 1a...

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AITA for siding with my husband when my brother kicked him out of the engagement party?
Relationship
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AITA for siding with my husband when my brother kicked him out of the engagement party?

It's a messed up conflict between my brother and my husband and by extension me. So, My (f30) brother "Jacob, m33" and my husband "Connor, m32" have been friends since college. I met Connor through Jacob. they were so close and are always in agreement but that changed once Jacob's fiancee "Rachel" came around. Connor told me that Rachel used to be this "fun" girl that slept with nearly every...

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AITA for refusing to pay the medical bills for my roommate's son after he had an allergic reaction eating my cookies?
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AITA for refusing to pay the medical bills for my roommate's son after he had an allergic reaction eating my cookies?

My roommate's son, Sam (4M) is allergic to strawberries. He gets an allergic reaction only if he eats them. I recently made a batch of strawberry shortcake cookies. Some of them were in a jar in the top shelf. She mostly works remotely but sometimes she will have to go to the office for a few hours (1-2 max). As I always work from home and the kid is really sweet, I don't mind babysitting. O...

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AITA for “not letting my mom be a grandma”
Family Conflict
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AITA for “not letting my mom be a grandma”

So I just had a baby and my mother is very excited to have him over when he gets older and she talks nonstop about it. Which frankly I wouldn’t have a problem with except for one thing. She is a habitual chain smoker. She smokes in her car like nobody’s business. She has a three season room with gla*s windows that she smokes inside of, so essentially a part of the inside of her house. To th...

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AITAH for refusing to chip in for a coworker's wedding gift after literally being uninvited?
Work
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AITAH for refusing to chip in for a coworker's wedding gift after literally being uninvited?

So I (27F) have been working at this marketing agency for about 2 years. My coworker Jess (31F) is getting married next month and initially invited our whole team (8 people) to her wedding. We're not like besties besties, but definitely friendly - lunch together sometimes, happy hours, the usual work friend stuff. Last week our office manager Sarah started collecting money for a group gift....

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AITA for disowning my brother when he came out as gay, because of how he's treating his wife?
Relationship
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AITA for disowning my brother when he came out as gay, because of how he's treating his wife?

I (21f) have a brother (28) who came out as gay last month. He has been married to my best friend's big sister (24) for four years, they have 2yo twin daughters together. I'm really close with her, so I've been trying to stay neutral in what has become a messy separation. My brother told his wife he's gay by sitting her down, and saying he had been sleeping with two different men for about six ...

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AITA for prioritizing law school over my girlfriend’s baby fever?
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AITA for prioritizing law school over my girlfriend’s baby fever?

My girlfriend Katie(25) and I (M25) have been together for 3 years. She’s been bringing up wanting to have a baby lately. Says how some of her friends are already married with kids. I get that, but I’ve told her clearly that now is not the time. I’m not ready, and we’re not in a place financially or mentally to even consider raising a kid. Im in my second year of law school, and fully buried i...

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My boyfriend ‘playfully’ grabbed my face during an argument. I called it violent. AITA?
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My boyfriend ‘playfully’ grabbed my face during an argument. I called it violent. AITA?

I’m f23, he’s m29. We've been together two years. Things have always been pa*sionate sometimes too pa*sionate. Last week we got into an argument over som**hing small. He was frustrated that I didn’t answer his call while I was at work, and it spiraled from there. I told him I wasn’t a child and didn’t owe him an explanation every hour. He got close to my face cl**er than usual. Then he sudde...

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AITA for not congratulating my sister in law on her planned pregnancy and telling her she's making a mistake instead?
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AITA for not congratulating my sister in law on her planned pregnancy and telling her she's making a mistake instead?

My brother works as a car rental agent and his salary is not livable at all. His wife is a stay at home mom for their 4 year-old, so, he's the sole provider and he's been receiving a fixed sum from both my mom and other sister to keep things afloat. I also helped a few times when I could. Some time ago, my sister in law told me she wanted another child because she didn't want their son to b...

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