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AITA For telling my wife we can't fully participate in her family Xmas traditions
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AITA For telling my wife we can't fully participate in her family Xmas traditions

My wife (36F) and I (38M) have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids (8, 5, & 3). We both work full-time and live fairly comfortably. I work in sales and have had somewhat of a down year commission wise. Coupled with inflation this year and the cost of raising 3 growing kids, our budget has definitely tightened a bit. Nothing serious, we just aren't saving as much as we have been able to i...

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AITA for refusing to drive my friend while she wasn’t wearing a seatbelt, even though it made her late?
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AITA for refusing to drive my friend while she wasn’t wearing a seatbelt, even though it made her late?

I (22f) joined a hiking group a few months ago to make some new friends. There, I met this girl named Reese (23f). We share a lot of the same interests and we became pretty good friends. For the past month or so, Reese has been on the hunt for a new job since her current one has abysmal pay. She finally got an interview, but about 4 days ago, her car broke down and she had to take it to the sho...

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AITAH for telling my mil to get out of my house after she stole all of my saved up cash?
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AITAH for telling my mil to get out of my house after she stole all of my saved up cash?

I (31 F) have saved up cash ever since I was like around 7, I had around 20k in the Safe/Vault kind of box I have it's very hard to open. Anyways, I meet my husband (31 M) in college, and after completing college we got married. I loved his mother and his father; they were very sweet, and we got along well. A few months ago, my father-in-law pa*sed away from stage 4 of cancer. After that, ther...

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AITA for telling my wife she was "so close" to getting her dream job?
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AITA for telling my wife she was "so close" to getting her dream job?

I'm a 33-year-old man and my wife is 27. Since the start of our relationship, my wife has been very particular about how things get done, and tends to believe that she knows the one true correct way for anything related to anything. She has admitted that she can be a control freak. While this bothers me, it has never been a true dealbreaker in our relationship. Very often when I do just ...

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AITA for sitting with my husband and his friends although he told me he needed "privacy"?
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AITA for sitting with my husband and his friends although he told me he needed "privacy"?

So, my husband is very sociable, he has many friends from different background. He'd hang out with this group of friends that consists of 6-12 guys. When we started dating I used to tag along in all of his hangouts, but after we got married he told me that I didn't need to be present for every hang out with his friends. Like not sit with him and friends when having their "guy time" playing or ...

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AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring?
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AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring?

My girlfriend (22f) and I (24m) have been together for about 3 years, and I decided around 5 months ago that I wanted to propose. We share a dog and a home so it seemed the next logical step. She’s hugely into jewellery, so I wanted to get her a really sentimental ring. At the end of September, her grandma suddenly pa*sed away and as my girlfriend was the only granddaughter, she was pa*sed down...

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AITA for Refusing to Let ‘Karen’ Neighbor Use My Pool After She Demanded I Follow Her Pool Rules?
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AITA for Refusing to Let ‘Karen’ Neighbor Use My Pool After She Demanded I Follow Her Pool Rules?

So, I (34M) live in a suburban neighborhood with a decent-sized backyard and a pool. I’ve always been friendly with my neighbors, including “Karen” (mid-40s F) who moved in next door about a year ago. She seemed nice at first, but as time went on, she started to show her true colors. Over the summer, Karen started coming over with her kids, asking if they could use the pool. At first, I did...

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AITA for kicking my SIL out for making my drunk husband feel like s**t?
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AITA for kicking my SIL out for making my drunk husband feel like s**t?

My SIL, her husband and her kid (14) are staying with me and my husband for the next week because there's a family funeral and all hotels were booked out for the blue gra*s fest and Kane Brown concert. We have a big farm house so it's not big deal but SIL is very opinionated. My SIL and my husband have different fathers. Her dad d*ed from liver failure 10 years ago and his death date just p...

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AITA for refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude
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AITA for refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude

I was at baggage claim at the airport with my son, who’s 3. We were leaving and as we’re walking away, this girl yells “excuse me!” At me. I turn and she points to her Starbucks drink which is spilled on the floor and says “your kid did that.” I ask my son if he spilled it and he said he b*mped it. The girl says “it was $5” and looks at me expectantly. I was p**sed about how rude she was and th...

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AITA for starting a house project without discussing it with my wife?
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AITA for starting a house project without discussing it with my wife?

My wife, Amy (27F) and I (27M) have a spare room in our home. We’ve gone back and forth since we moved in two+ years ago about what we wanted to do with it, but we never took the initiative to actually implement any of these plans. We already have a sufficient number of guest rooms and an office so the room just sits there, unutilized. I’m not that worried about it, but my wife brings it up no...

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AITA for getting my husband kicked out of the delivery room?
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AITA for getting my husband kicked out of the delivery room?

My husband and I (married for 3 years, together for 7) had our first child 3 weeks ago. She is perfect, and everything I could ever wish for, even if she is a handful. Unfortunately, her birth was complicated. I have always been a private person, and very terrified of pregnancy due to the risks a*sociated. My husband knows this, and I specifically asked him, when we found out about this pregnan...

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AITA for not inviting my unsupportive sister to my wedding?
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AITA for not inviting my unsupportive sister to my wedding?

I (24 F) got engaged to Derrick (30 M) one month ago. Prior to that, we had known each other for six months. I know that’s not a long time, but when you know, you know. We are madly in love and ready to commit ourselves to each other fully. My sister (26 F) has a problem with that though. She was supportive of my relationship with Derrick before we got engaged. When I sent her a text telling he...

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