AITA for telling my wife she was "so close" to getting her dream job?
In the quiet corners of their shared life, a man grapples with the subtle torment of love twisted by control.
His wife’s relentless need to dictate every detail, masked as affection, chips away at his confidence, leaving him caught between frustration and the desire to hold onto their bond.
Each condescending phrase, a dagger cloaked in praise, echoes louder than words, eroding his sense of self.
Despite his pleas for kindness, she insists on her way, turning everyday moments into battles for validation and respect, testing the fragile limits of their marriage.
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The original poster (OP) is experiencing significant emotional distress due to his wife's consistent, condescending criticism, which he perceives as undermining his competence in various aspects of life.
The central conflict arises when the OP inadvertently used his wife's most criticized phrase against her immediately following a major disappointment, causing her to feel deeply hurt and leading to separation.
Given the established pattern of the wife’s controlling behavior and the OP's delayed reaction to voicing boundaries, is the OP's use of the phrase 'You were so close' during his wife's moment of failure a justifiable, albeit poorly timed, expression of built-up frustration, or was it an act of cruelty that warrants his self-designation as an 'asshole'?