AITA for sitting with my husband and his friends although he told me he needed "privacy"?
From the moment they said "I do," an invisible line seemed to draw itself between them, turning once-shared moments into guarded spaces.
His need for "guy time" felt less like a request and more like a quiet exile, leaving her grappling with a sting of rejection and a deep yearning to belong.
She stood at the edge of their home, caught between love and loneliness, as the laughter and camaraderie she once embraced now felt like a world she was barred from.
In the silence of her exclusion, the question echoed: where does she fit in a life that once felt intertwined?
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The core conflict centers on the wife's feeling of exclusion and a perceived need for constant inclusion in her husband's social life, clashing directly with the husband's strong desire for separate social spaces and 'alone time' with his friends, both when out and when hosting guests at home.
Should the wife prioritize her feeling of needing to be present as a sign of inclusion and respect for her role in their shared home, or must she respect her husband's explicit requests for designated privacy for his male friendships, even if it feels like a rejection?