RelationshipAITA for telling my wife it would be controlling and inappropriate for her to try and change how my family does Christmas?
My wife and I rotate who we spend Christmas with, so one year her family and one year my family. I don't love doing it with her family, and she isn't a big fan of my mother. Our families are pretty different. Her family is much more about the kids. Even the dinner is tailored more to what kids like, the kids each get 1000 gifts and spend Christmas running around my MIL house, making a huge ruck...










