AITA for refusing to help with housework because it's my wife's job?
In the quiet struggle of their small two-bedroom apartment, a young family grapples with the weight of sacrifice and love.
The husband, burdened by exhaustion after working two jobs, yearns for a moment of peace and normalcy, while his wife, driven by devotion to their daughter’s early years, sacrifices her career and income for what she believes is best.
Beneath the surface of their solid relationship lies a tension born from unspoken needs and relentless responsibility.
Each day, they navigate the delicate balance between survival and nurturing, love and frustration, hoping their choices will forge a future where their family can thrive despite the hardships.
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The original poster (OP) feels deeply committed to the established division of labor, where his intense, dual-job work schedule is exchanged for his wife's full-time role as a stay-at-home parent responsible for all domestic duties.
His wife, however, is expressing resentment, feeling that the arrangement is unbalanced and demanding more shared household contribution from him, despite his exhaustion.
Is the husband justified in expecting his wife to manage all household duties exclusively, given that she chose to stay home for their child's development while he solely supports them financially, or is the wife correct in demanding a more equitable division of domestic labor, even when the financial roles are clearly defined?