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AITA for telling my ex's sterile affair partner to have her own daughter if she wants to share cheerleading with one?
Relationship
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AITA for telling my ex's sterile affair partner to have her own daughter if she wants to share cheerleading with one?

My ex (44M) cheated on me (40F) and ended our marriage so he could be with his affair partner/wife Jen (42F). This happened several years ago when our kids were very young. My ex gets our kids 6 days a month. He works out of state frequently so this was the most consistent schedule where our kids would be with a parent (me or ex) instead of being left with a babysitter or his wife. Accordin...

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AITA for calling my boyfriend an i**ot because he won’t get a colonoscopy even though his mom had colon cancer?
Family Conflict
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AITA for calling my boyfriend an i**ot because he won’t get a colonoscopy even though his mom had colon cancer?

So my boyfriend (33M) has a family history of colorectal cancer. His mom was diagnosed in her early 40s and it was really bad. She survived, but it was a long, awful ordeal. He was old enough to remember it. Because of that, his doctor told him he should start colonoscopies earlier than most people. He’s technically overdue for his first one. And lately, he’s had some weird stomach problems. ...

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AITA for Bringing My Own Cheese to a Restaurant Because My Boyfriend Thinks Ordering Extra is “Financially Irresponsible”?
Relationship
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AITA for Bringing My Own Cheese to a Restaurant Because My Boyfriend Thinks Ordering Extra is “Financially Irresponsible”?

So my (28F) boyfriend (30M) has this thing about not spending money on what he calls “unnecessary charges” at restaurants. He refuses to pay extra for anything…. guac, sauce, cheese, you name it. He says it’s a “scam” and that restaurants “prey on people” by charging for extras. Which… fine. Live your truth. But I love cheese. LOVE it. And there’s this burger spot we go to where adding chee...

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AITA for being shocked that my friend will get married before me?
Other
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AITA for being shocked that my friend will get married before me?

I have this friend, let's call her Jane. We're in our mid-thirties now but we were roommates since freshman year in college. She's one of my closest friends and I know her super well. And I know that for all of her twenties, she had horrendous luck with her love life and was extremely insecure about it. She always wanted to get married and have kids and kept ending up with d***hebags who would...

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AITA for telling my autistic brother the truth when he asked me why women don’t like him?
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AITA for telling my autistic brother the truth when he asked me why women don’t like him?

I’ve got a younger brother (24) with Aspergers and he’s very high functioning albeit with his quirks. Recently I’ve moved back home during the stay at home orders to look after my parents. My brother still lives with them. I find out he’s been trying to date in recent months and confessed it’s been pretty unsuccessful for him. He even got to go on a first date but his date literally got up and...

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AITAH for not buying my girlfriend the new Kim Kardashian puffer?
Relationship
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AITAH for not buying my girlfriend the new Kim Kardashian puffer?

I (25M) recently won $80k. After taxes and setting aside money for bills/savings, I had about $20k leftover for fun money. My girlfriend (23F) of 8 months has been begging me to buy her the new Kim Kardashian Skims puffer jacket that just dropped ($398). Here's where I might be TA - I told her no, even though I technically have the money. My reasoning is: 1. We've only been dating 8 months ...

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AITA for taking an Uber to a wedding so I wouldn't be late?
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AITA for taking an Uber to a wedding so I wouldn't be late?

My sister got married last weekend. I flew into town and my parents insisted that I stay with them instead of a hotel like I wanted. My parents are consistently late for everything. I think it's a Latin thing. I hate being late. I think it's disrespectful. The wedding was at 2:30. My folks live about half an hour from the church. Noon rolls up and my folks aren't even getting ready yet. ...

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AITAH if I don’t donate my kidney to my d**ng ex husband?
Relationship
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AITAH if I don’t donate my kidney to my d**ng ex husband?

The original poster was married briefly and divorced five years ago from a man they never liked; they were younger, insecure, and naive when they agreed to the marriage. The ex-husband turned out to be extremely abusive, leading the poster to leave after nearly a year. The ex-husband is now d**ng due to kidney damage resulting from a chronic disease. This condition was predicted for years if h...

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AITA for Breaking Up with My Girlfriend After She Said She Doesn't Want to Have Kids But I Do?
Parenting
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AITA for Breaking Up with My Girlfriend After She Said She Doesn't Want to Have Kids But I Do?

I (34M) have been with my girlfriend Sarah (30F) for 3 years. From the start, we talked about our future, and I made it clear that I want to have kids eventually. She seemed okay with it, saying she was "open to it," but as time went on, I realized she was just stringing me along. Last week, we had a big talk, and she finally admitted that she doesn't want kids—ever. She even went as far as to ...

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AITA for telling my husband he ruined my birthday.... again
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AITA for telling my husband he ruined my birthday.... again

Today is my 28th birthday. I deeply value birthdays and holidays and believe in celebrating them fully. I am the planner and giver for both my immediate family (husband and kids) and my extended family, handling all the planning for birthdays, gifts, and travel. I am also a stay-at-home mom because I care for a son with complex medical and behavioral needs. I have been with him 24/7 during the...

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AITAH- Roommates leaving their 2 year old home by himself
Boundaries
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AITAH- Roommates leaving their 2 year old home by himself

I live with my boyfriend and our two roommates. One of them being his best friend from his childhood and his wife. I’ve lived with the couple now since January 2025. The couple have a two year old son, super cute and sweet. Any time they want to go out to eat for dinner they wait until his bed time (7pm) to go eat. The kicker is that they leave him by himself in the house while he’s asleep to go...

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AITA for telling my BIL I wouldn't invite his kids over anytime soon?
Parenting
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AITA for telling my BIL I wouldn't invite his kids over anytime soon?

My wife (26F) and I (27F) moved to a new house. We thought we'd throw a dinner party and invite both sides of our families. We used to live in a different state for 5 years and now is our opportunity to catch up with our loved ones. My BIL has two kids (Daniel - 5M and Rosie 3F). These kids were absolutely horrible during the entire dinner and their parents did not say a single word or even try...

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