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AITAH for refusing to cancel my birthday trip because my boyfriend’s mom planned a family dinner the same day?
Family Conflict
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AITAH for refusing to cancel my birthday trip because my boyfriend’s mom planned a family dinner the same day?

I (20F) planned a weekend getaway with two close friends for my birthday. I've had a rough year, and this trip was som**hing i really looked forward to. It's nothing wild. Just a cabin, some wine, and hiking. I booked it over a month ago and told my boyfriend (23M) right away. He said it sounded fun and was happy for me. A few days ago his mom decided to host a family dinner on the same wee...

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AITA for telling my sister in law her friend is no longer allowed over because she wears revealing clothes around my husband?
Relationship
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AITA for telling my sister in law her friend is no longer allowed over because she wears revealing clothes around my husband?

I (23F) have a husband (24M). He has a sister (25F) who he is extremely close to. Me and her have gotten along since my husband first introduced me to her and I actually consider her my sister. Recently, she has started living with us. She was supposed to get married to her fiancée but last second he cancelled the wedding and she had nowhere to live since he was her support system financially. ...

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AITA for defending my daughter's religious choices?
Other
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AITA for defending my daughter's religious choices?

I understand religion can be a touchy subject sometimes, so I’ll try to tread carefully. My daughter “Jessica” (22F) dropped the b**bsh**l that she was going to be an atheist and did not wish to attend church services anymore unless necessary (weddings, funerals, etc.). As her mother, I was initially shocked and rather hurt because I raised her as a Catholic, but we had lengthy discussions ...

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AITA for demanding my sister and her boyfriend pay me back for drinking my whisky.
Relationship
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AITA for demanding my sister and her boyfriend pay me back for drinking my whisky.

My sister started living with me recently and pays me reduced rent. I was away from home for about a week due to work. I gave her a simple rule of forbidding her bringing anyone over. Not her new boyfriend or her friends. No exceptions to this rule. Well she broke that rule. During my week away. One of her Instagram posts showed her BF wearing one of my jackets on a night out. I called her ...

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AITA for asking my current wife to stop body shaming my ex-wife ?
Relationship
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AITA for asking my current wife to stop body shaming my ex-wife ?

I (45m) married my 2nd wife (29f) a few years after my ex-wife (47f) divorced me. I'm thin while current wife is on the heavier side but my ex-wife is much heavier than her. I honestly prefer a woman to be on the heavier side. My wife has referred to my ex as "fat" multiple times, in a derogatory manner. I asked my wife to stop body shaming my ex, and my wife accused me of still loving my e...

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AITA for telling my (24M) GF (25F) she’s penny-pinching me after losing her job?
Work
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AITA for telling my (24M) GF (25F) she’s penny-pinching me after losing her job?

1.5 years ago, I got a new grad job out of state and my girlfriend moved with me. It is an HCOL area, and our apartment is $2k / month. For the first year, she worked part time to nurture her mental health (paid me $150/month in rent). For the next .5 year, she worked full time, paying $800/month in rent and splitting utilities. Last month, she was laid off from her job. She had the money save...

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AITA for buzzing my hair off? I am a teenage girl and my sisters keep bringing lice home.
Other
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AITA for buzzing my hair off? I am a teenage girl and my sisters keep bringing lice home.

I am 16 and my sisters are 13 and 10. They keep bringing lice to the house, I guess they get it at school or pa*s it back and forth between each other; for nearly the last year there has been lice on one or both of them more often than not. I've gotten it a few times and it's so hard to get rid of, my hair is thick and curly. My sister's are also so gross, they won't be careful what brushes or ...

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AITA for getting a belly piercing without discussing it with my boyfriend beforehand?
Relationship
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AITA for getting a belly piercing without discussing it with my boyfriend beforehand?

I (22F) got a piercing without my boyfriend (25M) knowing beforehand. I was on a girls trip recently and there was a piercing store offering piercings for a good deal so a couple friends and I got matching belly piercings. I’ve been wanting to get a belly piercing for a couple years now so I decided to take a leap with my friends. I didn’t inform my boyfriend beforehand since I didn’t think it...

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AITA for pricing my custom cakes so high, just to discourage people from asking me for cakes.
Other
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AITA for pricing my custom cakes so high, just to discourage people from asking me for cakes.

I'm a hobbyist baker but my full time job is engineering consulting. There's more money in the engineering side; when I want to pick up extra hours of work, I'm gonna do engineering work. But I genuinely like making cakes for friends or for events as a surprise! But I don't always, sometimes I'm just too busy to make one, it's just som**hing I do if I happen to have a free day before a get toge...

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Aita for not wanting my daughter in my life after SHE cut me off for 6 years
Other
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Aita for not wanting my daughter in my life after SHE cut me off for 6 years

My late husband pa*sed away when my daughter Nelly was just five years old, and I had her when I was 17. I remarried Benz when Nelly was ten. For the first five years of our relationship, I focused on Nelly and continued to prioritize her well-being throughout my marriage to Benz. While my husband expressed a desire for children soon after we married, I made it clear that I preferred to wait u...

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AITA for keeping my grandmothers ring when it was given to me by “mistake”?
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AITA for keeping my grandmothers ring when it was given to me by “mistake”?

My grandmother pa*sed earlier this year and she had a pretty nice jewelry collection. Before she pa*sed she knew what went to who and had had me meet to see what I’d like. Instead of jewelry I asked for her wedding dress. No one else wanted it, I had gotten married in it, and she was really touched. After talking to her kids she went ahead and gave it to me before pa*sing. When she did pa*s...

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AITA for not wanting to adopt one of my wife's children?
Parenting
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AITA for not wanting to adopt one of my wife's children?

My (41m) wife (39f) and I have been married for 2 years but together for 5 total. She has two kids from a previous marriage, 'James' (15m) and 'Becky' (8f). I met them both after about 6 months of being with my wife and we all moved in together after a year. Of her own accord a few weeks ago, Becky asked me to adopt her (their biological dad is absent and neither of them have seen him in years)...

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