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AITAH for telling my husband that you don’t lose weight magically after going to the gym?
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AITAH for telling my husband that you don’t lose weight magically after going to the gym?

My husband (m33) and I (f24) have been married two years, and we have a 16 week old daughter. Prior to my pregnancy, I was active but not as active as my husband. He is big into fitness and stuff and I really am not, I just worked out because my dr told me too lol. I only ran maybe twice a week and had a Pilates cla*s every Sunday. I weighed 120 lbs before pregnancy. During pregnancy I gain...

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AITA for walking out on my boyfriend after he surprised me with a th****ome for my birthday?
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AITA for walking out on my boyfriend after he surprised me with a th****ome for my birthday?

So, my boyfriend (27M) decided to plan a “special surprise” for my (24F) birthday. I was expecting a nice dinner, maybe a cute gift. Instead, when I got to his apartment, he had another girl (who I’d never met) waiting in lingerie. He proudly announced that he had set up a th****ome for me because he thought it would be “every girl’s fantasy.” I just stood there, completely stunned. I didn’...

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AITAH for telling my brother-in-law to stop showing up unannounced when my husband isn’t home?
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AITAH for telling my brother-in-law to stop showing up unannounced when my husband isn’t home?

I (28F) don’t know if i’m just being paranoid or what, but som**hing about my brother in law (let’s call him Tyler, 32M) has been really bothering me lately. so here's what’s been happening. My husband (30M, Chris) and i have been married for about four years. we live in a quiet little place in Michigan. it’s nothing fancy, but it’s home. lately though, things haven’t felt so... safe. Ty...

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AITAH for waiting until I was financially s**ble before leaving my wife?
Relationship
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AITAH for waiting until I was financially s**ble before leaving my wife?

I've wanted out of my marriage for a little over 6 years now. There was nothing dramatic like cheating or a**se, unless her never ending condescending att*tude counts. She's simply just an emotional vampire who's also super lazy. I rather have to spend all my free time picking up after her and cleaning the house or live with piles of dirty plates everwhere and flies. We don't have kids, thank ...

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AITAH for refusing to cosign my boyfriend’s car loan even though we’ve been together 4 years?
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AITAH for refusing to cosign my boyfriend’s car loan even though we’ve been together 4 years?

So yeah, like the t*tle says I’ve been with my boyfriend (32M) for 4 years. I’m 29F. Things have been solid between us for the most part. We’ve talked about moving in together getting married eventually, the whole deal. Anyway, his car recently c**pped out and he needs a new one. He applied for a loan but didn’t get approved because of his credit. So he asked me to cosign. I told him I wasn’t ...

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AITAH for walking out of my girlfriend’s birthday dinner after what she did?
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AITAH for walking out of my girlfriend’s birthday dinner after what she did?

So my (28M) girlfriend, Sarah (26F), just had her birthday dinner at a nice restaurant with about 12 of our friends. I spent weeks planning it—made the reservation, coordinated with her friends, even got the staff to bring out a surprise cake at the end. Dinner was going well until Sarah stood up, tapped her gla*s, and said she had an "important announcement." Then, with the biggest smile, she ...

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AITA For Stopping My Boyfriend’s Proposal at our Best Friend’s Wedding?
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AITA For Stopping My Boyfriend’s Proposal at our Best Friend’s Wedding?

I (F26) and my boyfriend (M25) attended a mutual friend’s wedding. They’re very close friends to us and brought my boyfriend and I together. My boyfriend and I are coming up on our 3 year anniversary and things were getting pretty serious. Enough so that I very much wanted to marry him. He’s sweet, chatty, typically considerate and empathetic. He’s the person who I thought was the first to sho...

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AITA because I won't delay having a hysterectomy after the birth of my baby so I can be a surrogate for my sister?
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AITA because I won't delay having a hysterectomy after the birth of my baby so I can be a surrogate for my sister?

I (28f) am having my third (and final) child with my husband and I have a scheduled c-section and hysterectomy planned. My periods started when I was young (9) and I have suffered with them ever since. They're extremely painful, heavy and (very) long. I wasn't even sure if I could get pr****nt with my issues but I knew I wanted children so I delayed even when the option was originally presente...

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AITA for telling my 3-year-old son “Would you like it if Papa hit you like that?” after he hit me?
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AITA for telling my 3-year-old son “Would you like it if Papa hit you like that?” after he hit me?

My 3-year-old son was sick, and we had a rough, sleepless night. In the morning, I was cuddling him on the sofa, and he started playing with my watch. Suddenly, he hit it really hard, which hurt my hand. Reflexively, I got up and said, "Ouch, that really hurt." My son got upset, covered his face, and said, "Stop!" as if I was the one doing som**hing wrong. He then ran to my wife for comfort...

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AITA for not letting my sister's kids move in after she abandoned them?
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AITA for not letting my sister's kids move in after she abandoned them?

Ok, so this is a mess, and I need to know if I’m being a complete a-hole or not. My (32F) sister "Lisa" (36F) has always been the golden child in our family. Growing up, she could do no wrong. She got into trouble? It was just "kids being kids." She made mistakes? "Oh, Lisa is just figuring things out." Meanwhile, I got the "why can't you be more like your sister?" treatment. Anyway, fast f...

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AITAH for telling my SIL that family shouldn't have to call her "doctor" just because she now has a PhD?
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AITAH for telling my SIL that family shouldn't have to call her "doctor" just because she now has a PhD?

So, I have a SIL(f53) that after her kids had grown she went back to school, then got her Master's then PHD in literature. Let us say her name is Elizabeth. We were all proud of her doing this. She has recently working part time at the library and part time online professor at the community College. The family has not had a big family gathering for years it seems. My kids were just getting int...

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AITA for Refusing to Hang Out with My Friends Because I Always End Up Paying?
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AITA for Refusing to Hang Out with My Friends Because I Always End Up Paying?

So, here's the deal. I (28M) live on my own and manage my bills responsibly, but money’s been tight lately. My friends (let’s call them Sarah, Mike, and Jake) have been asking me to hang out frequently, and I used to go along because, hey, it’s fun to unwind with your crew, right? But here’s where the issue comes in. Whenever we go out—whether it’s dinner, drinks, or som**hing casual—it seems l...

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