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my husband is mad that i did a lingerie photoshoot, aitah?
Relationship
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my husband is mad that i did a lingerie photoshoot, aitah?

One of my best friends just became a full-time photographer, and she's been looking for clients. She occasionally does boudoir shoots, and I figured I'd get my husband a surprise s*xy calendar for his birthday. I did the shoot with my friend; it was just me and her. No men were present at any point in the process. She gave me the pics and said they were really good and asked if she could use t...

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AITA for telling my sister she was out of her mind when she said she wanted to take back my child whom I adopted from her?
Parenting
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AITA for telling my sister she was out of her mind when she said she wanted to take back my child whom I adopted from her?

My (36) sister N (29) got pr****nt at 18. I am infertile and knew I couldn't have kids so when N said she was giving her baby for adoption, I decided to be her mom. N went no contact 5 months after giving birth. For a bit of background, N got pr****nt by a one night stand and she apparently didn't remember or know the father at the time of birth but when V was 2, a man T (35) messaged me on so...

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AITA for telling MIL and SIL their obsession with hating my name is weird?
Other
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AITA for telling MIL and SIL their obsession with hating my name is weird?

My MIL and SIL have this real intense hatred for my name. It's become an obsession to the point they are in groups on different parts of the internet and mock my name, comment on how embarra*sing it is to be a*sociated with me, etc. My FIL is the reason my husband and I know this. He has grabbed screenshots and forwarded them to my husband to show just how bad this is. My name's Dove. I alw...

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AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama?
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AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama?

I work at a petting zoo here, and this weekend we had two teenager (around 16, boyfriend and girlfriend) who were antagonizing a llama. I told them "you might want to cut that out! Llamas spit in self-defense." But they kind of laughed my warning off. Now, I knew that llama spit was a whole lot worse than they probably thought it was. But I decided not to tell them about that. I figured if t...

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AITA for not disclosing that I am not Christian?
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AITA for not disclosing that I am not Christian?

To preface this, I do commissioned artwork, and don’t discriminate against any subject unless it’s r***st, h**ophobic, otherwise hateful, or s*xually disturbing. I did a commissioned art piece with Christian iconography, a beautiful ornate cross, a saint, and scripture in calligraphy. The client was happy with my work, paid me, and then…asked me what my favorite scripture was. I was honest ...

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AITA for "announcing" that my dad's not paying my college tuition
Family Conflict
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AITA for "announcing" that my dad's not paying my college tuition

My aunt and uncle are paying for my cousins college. My dad had a college fund for me, but he had stipulations like he wanted nothing below a B for grades and to pre approve any cla*ses I take, weekly meetings to discuss grades and a bunch of other stuff. Which would be fine if you have a normal dad. Mine isn't. My dad has a temper and I spent 6th-12th grade stressed out about grades and be...

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AITAH for telling my wife I can't accept her going on solo weekend trips with her "platonic" guy friend anymore?
Relationship
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AITAH for telling my wife I can't accept her going on solo weekend trips with her "platonic" guy friend anymore?

My wife (35F) and I (36M) have been together nearly a decade, married for seven years. Our relationship has always been built on trust, and I’ve never considered myself the jealous or controlling type. She’s always had male friends, and it was never an issue... until recently. Enter Tyler (40M). She met him through a hiking group about a year ago. He’s married, outdoorsy, and they bonded ov...

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AITAH for telling my wife I want part of her property if she wants me to quit my job?
Relationship
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AITAH for telling my wife I want part of her property if she wants me to quit my job?

My wife (33F) and I (34M) have been married for five years. She owns a successful real estate business that she started before we met, and I work as a project manager. We don’t have kids yet, but she recently told me she wants to start a family soon, and that when we do, she thinks it would be best if I quit my job to manage the household and future children. I was surprised because we’ve alwa...

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AITA for demanding that my niece, or her parents, pay me back for the hundreds of dollars of perfume she stole from me?
Family Conflict
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AITA for demanding that my niece, or her parents, pay me back for the hundreds of dollars of perfume she stole from me?

I have a perfume collection that I started when I was a teenager slinging burritos as my first job. I have over 400 bottles at this point, I take great pride in my collection, and I use it. I’m also happy to give people decants (samples) of most of my bottles, let them sample a spray or two, give some bottles as gifts, etc. What I have a HUGE f**king issue with is my 17 year old niece comin...

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AITAH for not getting my boyfriend breakfast and sleeping instead?
Relationship
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AITAH for not getting my boyfriend breakfast and sleeping instead?

My (22M) boyfriend is upset with me (23F) because instead of getting him breakfast a little over an hour before I had to be at work I decided to continue sleeping. For some context, I work from home and usually don’t get up until about 10-15 minutes before I need to clock in. Since I work from home and luckily I don’t have to be on camera, I just get up, walk my dog, wash my face, and then clo...

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AITA for ruining a proposal?
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AITA for ruining a proposal?

My girlfriend just bought a house and is so excited. She invited a ton of people over for a housewarming. She put so much work into everything. The house looked amazing, and the food was delicious. Right after dinner, while my girlfriend was getting dessert, her brother proposed to his girlfriend. I was mad because he hijacked my girlfriend's event that she worked so hard for. Before she co...

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AITA for telling my girlfriend that her phobia is ridiculous and she needs treatment?
Relationship
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AITA for telling my girlfriend that her phobia is ridiculous and she needs treatment?

My (20) girlfriend (21) has a very severe phobia of cold things. We live in England, so this is an issue for like, half of the year. She refuses to touch anything that might be cold, including the floor with her feet in winter, door handles, walls, cold water, absolutely anything. She has to run a full bath of very hot water before she has a shower to 'make sure the floor isn't cold'. She also...

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