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RelationshipMy girlfriend (27F), Sarah, and I (26M) have been together for three years. She is a teacher and is very pa*sionate about her career. A few weeks ago, I found photos of her on Instagram from when she was a lingerie model, some of which were n**e. When I confronted her, she said she stopped modeling before becoming a teacher and thought I already knew. I told a few of my friends, and one of the...
RelationshipI (F-36) have a daughter (F-16) who loves baking, and she's incredibly good at it. It's her pa*sion since she was 3 and I encourage her to follow it and discover more ways to become better at it. I even enrolled her in few cla*ses in academy to learn more. I met my fiance (M-41) 2 and a half years ago. We're getting married soon. And for the wedding cake I had an idea which's to have my dau...
Family ConflictI (28F) have been busting my b**t for years to save for my own house. I work in software, so I make decent money, but it still takes forever to build up a good down payment. Meanwhile, my younger sister (25F) is in grad school with barely any credit. Our parents (both mid-50s) found a house near them and decided she needs it. They made an offer—without telling me—and now the deal only goes thr...
RelationshipSo I (35M) was in a motorcycle accident earlier this week. My wife (35F) has 3 kids from a previous marriage (17F, 10M, 5M) and we have a 1 year old together. I had a collapsed lung and put in a chest tube, a broken leg and arm and torn ligaments in my knee. I've been in the hospital since Monday. She came out the day of my accident and stayed until about 4 am. Was back that same morning but h...
RelationshipI f26 went on a "family trip" with my inlaws 2 weeks ago. MIL always thought that I am a bit "ignorant" and "backward" and that just because I come from lower cla*s family (compared to hers) that I have no "etiquette". After we arrived to the hotel, They arranged to visit a fancy restaurant for dinner. My husband avoid telling me and I learned it last minute after he had already got dressed. I ...
BoundariesMy husband (m33) & I (f30) are expecting a baby boy, We're barely catching up with preperation and getting everything ready. His mom (kind of a busy body type but can be helpful at times) invited us for dinner and said she has an important request to make. She brought her request up at dinner table and blatantly said that she wanted to be in the delivery room with me when I give birth. I was ta...
ParentingMy ex husband and I share custody of our 10 year old daughter and 12 year old son. We have a 2-2-3 schedule which usually looks like I have the kids Friday after school and then he gets them Monday after school. I get them back Wednesday after school and then he gets them Friday after school and then the week flip flops. We've done this since our divorce 5 years ago and it works well. I'm a nu...
ParentingThis happened a couple of days before Christmas. My sister, her 3 kids (4,6,8), and I were all staying at my parents house for the holidays. I have a 1TB iPad Pro (the largest screen model) that I use for my job. I do digital commissions, design band posters, design flyers to make money on the side as I’m in college. I saved up for a year to buy this iPad, it was an investment in my hobby. ...
RelationshipMy (26F) sister Anna (24F) married my friend Lance (27M), he was the cool guy in our friend group, handsome, mysterious, smart, quiet. I don't know how he ended up with my sister, she's the total opposite, loud, funny, outgoing. She's beautiful though, really beautiful, and when they got together everyone said how good they looked. Anna seemed to be really in love with him ALL THE TIME, she...
Family ConflictMy husband (31) was in the hospital for a surgery that involved anesthesia. His mom came to wait with me there but didn't speak to me because we have been having some minor disagreements. She offered me coffee but I declined politely. Hours after the surgery, we were told only one person goes into the room for the day since he was still under anesthesia. From what I understand he woke up ca...
Food & DietLongtime lurker here. Hoping some of you guys can weigh in on what has become a really frustrating situation with a close friend and his partner. So my wife (29F) and I (29M) have been hosting dinner parties a few times a year for as long as we’ve lived in our current city. We like to go all out and cook elaborate multi-course meals, so we limit our invitations to just a few close friends, sinc...
ParentingJust over two years ago, I (f29) unexpectedly got pr****nt and now have a beautiful 18 month old daughter, Ciara. Over that time my friends circle got considerably smaller but my best friend remained, Mia (f31). Mia doesn’t have kids nor wants kids but she’s been brilliant with Ciara. I’m a SAHM and obviously don’t have as much time to hang out as I did previously. Mia and I live on the same...