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AITA for checking my husband's dashcam footage on his car without his consent
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AITA for checking my husband's dashcam footage on his car without his consent

I (34F) live with my husband (37M) and daughter (7F). My daughter and I recently went on a short trip out of state while my husband stayed as he had work and was supposed to look after our dog. On the last day of our trip we got a call from my husband who was acting distraught and said that our dog Ellie had run away and that he could not find her. He claimed she just bolted away from him in...

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AITA for kicking out my girlfriend
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AITA for kicking out my girlfriend

So I have a cat named Raven who's 3 years old. My girlfriend of 2 years moved in with me a few weeks ago and it was clear she didn't like my cat. I didn't think it was really a big deal until one day I got home and he was just gone. He's not an outdoor cat and he never goes outside. He was gone for hours and I was worried sick until my buddy came to my house and returned him, saying he found...

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AITA for kicking my cousin off of my sister’s wedding Zoom call?
Family Conflict
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AITA for kicking my cousin off of my sister’s wedding Zoom call?

My [27M] older sister [30F] and her fiancé [31M] were planning for over a year for their wedding to be this month. Obviously, they can’t have the wedding as planned, but they still would like to get married, so they decided on a “Zoom” wedding where all of the family/friends would just call in to watch the officiant, my sister, and her fiancé. My sister didn’t want to be in charge of hosting th...

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AITA for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me?
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AITA for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me?

I am the by-product of my parents extra-marital affair. Both of them had spouses at the time. My birth-mother got pr****nt and had to tell her husband as he was overseas when I was conceived so there was no way I was his. A few months after I was born they decided not to divorce. I was given to my grandparents on my mothers side to raise with my birth father secretly paying child support witho...

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UPDATE - AITA for throwing my kid's clothes onto the floor when they don't fold them neatly?
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UPDATE - AITA for throwing my kid's clothes onto the floor when they don't fold them neatly?

Almost 2 months ago I made a post on here about me throwing my daughter’s clothes onto the drawer when they weren’t folded neatly. Well that post really blew up, people on Twitter also chimed in. Well the night I made the post, I was still in serious denial. I replied to some comments and my denial was perfectly clear for everyone to see. The day after I read some more comments and messages ...

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Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating?
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Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating?

I found out the guy I was living with was cheating on me last June. It hurt but I couldn't afford to move out. So I swallowed my pride and let it continue. I slowly started to notice that my life was actually better. I didn't act sus**cious of him at all. He got bolder and started spending nights and even weekends away. Our bedroom went d**d when I stopped initiating. Honestly fine by me. He w...

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UPDATE: AITA for telling my girlfriend that being depressed is not an excuse for being lazy?
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UPDATE: AITA for telling my girlfriend that being depressed is not an excuse for being lazy?

Ultimately I realise that the majority of the blame was mine. I never EVER should have called her lazy because that isn't what she is. I lashed out and I shouldn't have. She stayed at her mothers for a few days, and we eventually met up to talk. I told her how it just got too much for me, but it was no excuse for lashing out and I apologised. She apologised also, not that she needed to, and we ...

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META: Too many AITA commenters advocate too quickly for people to leave their partners at the first sign of conflict, and this kind of thinking deprives many people of emotional growth.
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META: Too many AITA commenters advocate too quickly for people to leave their partners at the first sign of conflict, and this kind of thinking deprives many people of emotional growth.

I’ve become frustrated with how quick a lot of AITA commenters are to encourage OP’s to leave their partners when a challenging experience is posted. While leaving a partner is a necessary action in some cases, just flippantly ending a relationship because conflicts arise is not only a dangerous thing to recommend to others, but it deprives people of the challenges necessary to grow and evolve as ...

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AITA for punishing my son after he said som**hing r***st?
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AITA for punishing my son after he said som**hing r***st?

About a week ago, my (39F) family ordered Chinese food for delivery. When the delivery driver came to the door, my daughter (16F) was taking the cat upstairs to put in her room because he always tries to eat the food. My son (13M) loudly says, “Make sure the hide the cat from the Chinese guy!” as I am at the door getting the food from the Chinese delivery driver. He very obviously heard what m...

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AITA for telling strangers that my wife and I are married?
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AITA for telling strangers that my wife and I are married?

My wife gets upset when I do this but I feel like I'm in the right here. If we are at a bar or a party, we usually go our own separate ways to socialize. I'll notice that she'll be talking to a guy that neither of us have met before and I can see on his face that he's into her. So I'll head over to where she's at and grab her, give her a kiss and compliment her. Som**hing like "She's so funny....

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AITAH for how I reacted when my niece announced she was engaged?
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AITAH for how I reacted when my niece announced she was engaged?

I (33m) have a pretty big age difference with my brother (44m). He had a child at 25, which means that I became an uncle at 14. Because we were pretty close in age, I formed a special bond with my niece, Ella (now 18f). When she was 16, my brother and his family moved away so I've been seeing them less recently, but we keep in touch and catch up at family events. Last year, at Christmas, my ...

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AITA for making my co-workers think I’m married?
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AITA for making my co-workers think I’m married?

H**lo, I (32 F) have been working at a law firm for 6 years. My high school sweetheart (J) d*ed at 24. Before he d*ed he had proposed, I said yes. I was so struck with grief that I could never bring myself to take off the ring he gave me. Around 2 years ago I finally moved on and chose to adopt a girl, (L). Everyone at the firm a*sumes I’m married due to the ring and kid. One of my co-workers ...

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