AITA for refusing to host Christmas after my mother woke my sleeping babies?
In a whirlwind of unexpected challenges and heart-wrenching sacrifices, a young mother finds herself raising two infants born just months apart, bound by love yet fractured by betrayal.
Her ex-husband’s fleeting presence left her with the heavy mantle of sole custody, forcing her to navigate sleepless nights and overwhelming responsibilities that test the limits of her strength and spirit.
Amid the chaos of moving, relentless work pressures, and the isolating weight of single motherhood, she clings to the fragile hope of family and festive warmth.
Christmas approaches like a distant beacon, promising a brief respite and the comforting presence of her parents and brother—a small island of support in a storm of relentless struggle.
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The original poster (OP) is facing immense stress while single-handedly raising two very young children under difficult circumstances.
Her decision to rescind the agreement to host Christmas was a direct response to a boundary v***ation by her mother, which confirmed her fears about managing visitors while caring for infants.
Her family is now pressuring her to reverse her decision, accusing her of being unreasonable for prioritizing her immediate, delicate household needs over their previously made arrangements.
Given the OP's clear need for a safe, quiet environment for her babies versus the family's expectation of maintaining the es**blished holiday plans, the central question is: Does the OP have the right to unilaterally cancel hosting duties immediately after a safety boundary is crossed, or does her prior commitment outweigh the sudden re-emergence of her legitimate concerns about managing her household during a stressful time?
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