AITA for not wanting to have my ex's stepdaughter some weekends?
A fractured family struggles to redefine boundaries and trust in the wake of betrayal.
A mother, wounded by her ex-husband’s in***elity, fiercely protects her daughter from forced closeness with a stepdaughter she never chose, standing firm against manipulation disguised as opportunity.
Amid the tangled emotions, the ex’s attempt to engineer a bond between the girls feels less about connection and more about control.
The mother’s unwavering “no” is a powerful stand for her daughter’s feelings, highlighting the raw pain and resilience that come from guarding a child’s heart after a family’s fracture.
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The Original Poster (OP) es**blished a firm boundary against a*suming responsibility for her ex-husband's stepdaughter during his wife's absence.
The central conflict stems from the ex-husband's expectation that the OP should actively participate in managing his blended family obligations, which conflicts directly with the OP's es**blished position that she is not responsible for cultivating her daughter's relationship with the stepdaughter.
Was the OP justified in refusing to take on occasional childcare duties for her ex-husband's stepdaughter when the request was framed as a means to improve her own daughter's social dynamics, or should she have considered helping the family during a time of need?
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