UPDATE: AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off?

Ok-Preference2283 1211 comments

She gathered the courage to confront the silent storm that had been brewing between her and her husband, hoping to bridge the painful gap his words had carved into her heart.

After giving birth, her body was a testament to the life she had brought into the world, yet she faced the harsh weight of feeling unwanted and misunderstood by the one she loved most.

In the fragile space between their words, she wrestled with the ache of his admission—that his desires were tangled in confusion and discomfort with her changed body.

Their conversation was a fragile dance around raw emotions, revealing the struggle to reconcile love with the reality of change, and the quiet hope that more honest talks might one day heal the rift.

UPDATE: AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off?
‘UPDATE: AITAH for giving my husband silent treatment after he told me my post-birth body turns him off?’

Subscribe to our Newsletter

Get the latest stories delivered to your inbox.

The Internet Sounded Off — and It Got Loud:

Users didn’t stay quiet — they showed up in full force, mixing support with sharp criticism. From calling out bad behavior to offering real talk, the comments lit up fast.

The original poster is deeply hurt and offended by her husband's comments regarding her post-pregnancy body, especially given the physical recovery she is undergoing.

Her central conflict lies between her need for emotional validation and respect for her body and her husband's expressed discomfort with her current physical appearance, which he claims he cannot control.

Should the husband prioritize his partner's emotional well-being and offer a sincere apology for causing pain, or is his expression of physical preference a valid boundary that the partner must simply accept without argument?