AITA for calling a guy a nepo-hire after he said I’m a diversity hire?

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In a world where glass ceilings still loom large, she stands alone—a young woman of color navigating the cold, unwelcoming halls of a male-dominated powerhouse.

Surrounded by a sea of white faces and subtle prejudices, every day is a battle to be seen, heard, and respected in a place that wasn’t built for her.

Tensions simmer beneath the surface, fueled by ent*tlement and bias, as one coworker’s resentment festers into open hostility.

Chosen over him for an opportunity, she faces not just professional rivalry but a personal war of wills, testing her strength and resilience in ways she never anticipated.

AITA for calling a guy a nepo-hire after he said I’m a diversity hire?
‘AITA for calling a guy a nepo-hire after he said I’m a diversity hire?’

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When the Crowd Speaks, It Echoes Loudly:

What started as a simple post quickly turned into a wildfire of opinions, with users chiming in from all sides.

The original poster (OP) reached a breaking point after facing ongoing hostility, perceived ent*tlement, and a deeply offensive personal attack from a coworker who benefits from nepotism.

Her reaction was to retaliate with equally harsh personal insults, escalating the conflict significantly despite knowing the potential career risk in her male-dominated workplace.

Given the initial, sustained unprofessional behavior from the coworker contrasted with the OP's explosive verbal response, the central question is where the line for acceptable workplace conflict resolution should be drawn: Does severe provocation justify an equally severe, personal counter-attack, or should professional standards of conduct always be maintained regardless of the offense received?