AITA for thinking I was great in bed until my wife admitted she’s been faking it?
He thought their bond was unbreakable, their intimacy a testament to their love. For eight years, he believed he had been fulfilling his wife in ways that made their connection electric and passionate.
But the truth slammed into him like a tidal wave—she had never truly experienced pleasure with him, and every moment they shared had been a carefully crafted illusion.
The revelation shattered his confidence and left him drowning in a sea of disbelief, hurt, and confusion. How could she hide such a fundamental truth all this time?
The weight of her silence crushed him, leaving him questioning everything he thought he knew about their marriage and himself.
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The original poster (OP) is experiencing significant distress, feeling foolish, embarrassed, and betrayed after learning his wife has been faking o***sms for their entire eight-year relationship.
His conflict stems from his belief that he was a good s*xual partner being sharply contrasted with his wife's actions, where her desire to protect his ego prevented open communication about a critical aspect of their intimacy.
Is the husband overreacting to a situation his wife claims was motivated by kindness and a desire to avoid hurting his feelings, or was the suppression of this crucial information for eight years an act of dishonesty that fundamentally undermined the trust and potential for genuine intimacy in their marriage?
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