My ex-wife’s health is deteriorating after I won full custody but I simply don’t care.

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In the quiet shadows of a seemingly perfect family, a man’s world shatters as he uncovers a haunting secret buried deep within his ex-wife’s past.

What began as love and trust slowly unravels into a painful journey of deceit, silence, and the dark scars of a**se that were hidden behind closed doors.

As the painful truth seeps through years of lies and half-truths, he grapples with the heartbreaking reality of a sister cast out and condemned, her suffering dismissed and misunderstood.

In this tangled web of family loyalty and betrayal, the lines between love and brutality blur, leaving him to question everything he once believed.

My ex-wife’s health is deteriorating after I won full custody but I simply don’t care.
‘My ex-wife’s health is deteriorating after I won full custody but I simply don’t care.’

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This one sparked a storm. The comments range from brutally honest to surprisingly supportive — and everything in between.

The original poster (OP) is currently experiencing severe conflict regarding the custody arrangement for his three daughters following his divorce.

He es**blished a clear boundary against his ex-wife's parents visiting or having unsupervised time with the children due to serious, undisclosed historical family a**se involving the maternal grandfather.

However, the OP discovered the ex-wife repeatedly v***ated this agreement, leading him to seek and obtain full custody, which has resulted in the ex-wife only receiving supervised visitations.

Given the OP's justified concern over protecting his children from a known risk versus the backlash from family and friends labeling him as 'brutal' for severely restricting the ex-wife's access, the central question remains: When a co-parent knowingly v***ates critical safety agreements concerning vulnerable children, is prioritizing absolute protection through full custody justifiable, even if it causes significant emotional distress to the other parent?