AITA for refusing to make my husband apologize for what he said to my mom at dinner table?

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In a delicate dance of past wounds and present love, a woman finds herself caught between the shadows of a former engagement and the fragile hope of her new marriage.

The echoes of family expectations and unspoken comparisons threaten to unravel the peace she’s fought so hard to build with Scott, her husband, as her mother’s lingering favoritism casts a silent, heavy cloud over their union.

Amidst the tension and whispered judgments, Scott stands resilient, trying to weather the storm of constant comparison to a man from a life they once left behind.

But beneath the surface, the emotional strain weighs heavily, revealing the painful reality of love tested not just by time, but by the relentless ghosts of what could have been.

AITA for refusing to make my husband apologize for what he said to my mom at dinner table?
‘AITA for refusing to make my husband apologize for what he said to my mom at dinner table?’

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When the Crowd Speaks, It Echoes Loudly:

Support, sarcasm, and strong words — the replies covered it all. This one definitely got people talking.

Why?

The original poster (OP) is caught in a difficult situation where her mother actively undermines her current marriage by constantly comparing her husband, Scott, to her wealthy ex-fiancé.

The central conflict lies in the mother's inability to accept Scott's standing and her subsequent public shaming of him, which Scott ultimately countered with a sharp, public remark regarding her grammar.

Given the mother's repeated history of manipulative and critical behavior, was Scott's sharp, public retort an appropriate way to finally es**blish a firm boundary, or did his reaction only escalate the existing family tension by publicly humiliating the OP's mother?