AITA for making an obese man pay me cash to take up part of my seat on a long flight?

BigBawluh 1473 comments

In the claustrophobic confines of a cramped airplane cabin, a simple journey across the country became a profound lesson in human dignity and discomfort.

What began as a routine flight, with carefully selected seats promising comfort, quickly transformed into a silent struggle for space and respect, as the presence of a man visibly struggling to fit challenged not only the physical boundaries but the emotional ones as well.

Caught between empathy and personal space, the narrator faced a moment of vulnerability that exposed the raw truths of human interaction.

The polite confrontation was more than a request for room—it was a plea for understanding in a shared space where neither could fully escape the weight of the other’s reality.

AITA for making an obese man pay me cash to take up part of my seat on a long flight?
‘AITA for making an obese man pay me cash to take up part of my seat on a long flight?’

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Support, sarcasm, and strong words — the replies covered it all. This one definitely got people talking.

The original poster found themselves in a stressful situation where their paid-for personal space was compromised by another pa*senger's size, leading to physical discomfort.

The OP resolved this conflict by proposing a monetary exchange to tolerate the situation, effectively monetizing their reduced comfort level, which the other pa*senger accepted.

The central conflict rests on the right to personal physical space versus the need for the other pa*senger to travel immediately.

Was the OP justified in demanding financial compensation to accept a clear breach of their personal boundaries, or should they have prioritized the immediate comfort of the larger pa*senger, perhaps by volunteering to move or accept the situation without payment?