AITAH for shaming my boyfriend over his weird p*eing habit?
She cherished her boyfriend’s kindness and thoughtfulness, seeing him as the epitome of good manners and respect.
Yet beneath this calm exterior lay a peculiar habit that unsettled her deeply—a strange and silent boundary he maintained, hinting at an unspoken discomfort that neither of them fully understood.
Their relationship, built on trust and affection, suddenly revealed cracks through simple acts of human need.
What began as a baffling choice to avoid using her bathroom spiraled into moments of awkwardness and concern, challenging her perceptions and forcing her to confront the vulnerabilities hidden behind his quiet politeness.
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The original poster is deeply concerned and confused by her boyfriend's insistence on urinating outdoors or in unusual, public settings, despite having access to private and convenient restrooms.
This behavior stems from his belief that using someone else's facilities is inherently disrespectful or impolite, directly conflicting with the OP's understanding of basic social courtesy and personal comfort.
Is the boyfriend's extreme aversion to using offered indoor facilities rooted in a genuine, albeit misplaced, attempt at politeness, or does this pattern of public urination indicate a deeper issue with boundaries and social norms that the relationship cannot sustain?
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