AITA for refusing to talk to my mom after she gave my stepsister my wedding fund?

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The joy of wedding planning, once a shared dream between stepsisters, has been shattered by the relentless impact of the pandemic.

One sister faces the heartbreak of a postponed summer wedding, burdened by lost deposits and slashed budgets, while the other stands on the brink of her own journey, uncertain and searching for clarity amid family tensions.

Beneath the surface of celebration and anticipation lies a quiet storm of unspoken emotions and withheld support.

A simple request for a long-promised gift ignites avoidance and unease, unraveling the fragile threads of trust and love that once bound them together.

AITA for refusing to talk to my mom after she gave my stepsister my wedding fund?
‘AITA for refusing to talk to my mom after she gave my stepsister my wedding fund?’

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Users didn’t stay quiet — they showed up in full force, mixing support with sharp criticism. From calling out bad behavior to offering real talk, the comments lit up fast.

The Original Poster (OP) is facing a significant breach of trust and financial expectation after discovering their promised wedding fund was given to their stepsister to cover pandemic-related losses.

The OP's primary emotional conflict stems from feeling betrayed by their parents, especially given that all other siblings have already received their dedicated funds, while the parents insist the OP has no right to be upset over their unilateral decision regarding what was perceived as dedicated savings.

Given that the parents have already allocated the OP's dedicated funds based on perceived need and the fiancé's family's wealth, is the OP's anger justified regarding the v***ation of a long-standing agreement, or should they accept the decision as the parents' prerogative over their own money, despite the resulting impact on their own wedding plans?