AITA for threatening my mom that I'll stop paying the house utilities if she won't respect my sleeping pattern?
He landed a remote job that tripled his income, a lifeline after the lockdown shattered stability.
Yet, the nocturnal hours demanded by his new work schedule alienated him from the rhythms of his family, especially his mother, whose heartfelt desire for Sunday breakfasts clashed with his need for rest during the day.
The tension simmered beneath the surface until frustration erupted into a harsh ultimatum—threatening to pull his share of the bills if his mother didn't respect his sleep cycle.
Behind this confrontation lay the deeper strain of a family struggling to adapt, their bonds tested by unyielding circumstances and the silent sacrifices each was forced to make.
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The Original Poster (OP) is caught between maintaining a necessary, high-paying, but nocturnal work schedule and fulfilling a family expectation set by their mother regarding Sunday breakfast.
The conflict escalated severely when the OP used their financial contribution—paying utilities—as leverage to enforce their boundary regarding sleep, causing significant anger from both parents.
Is the OP justified in enforcing necessary work boundaries, even by threatening to withdraw crucial financial support, or did this ultimatum cross a line in terms of respect toward parents who rely on that aid? How can the OP set firm boundaries without resorting to financial threats?