AITA for refusing to sell the stuff to my aunt who's daughter took my credit card?

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In the quiet chaos before Christmas, trust was shattered in an instant when a beloved credit card vanished only to resurface in the hands of a young cousin, driven by desire and misunderstanding.

What began as a moment of betrayal spiraled into a tangled web of emotions—anger, guilt, and heartbreak—where family lines blurred and the weight of consequences settled heavily on everyone involved.

Amidst the tangled feelings, a rare treasure arrived, its value far beyond mere money, symbolizing both the innocence of a child's wish and the complexity of forgiveness.

Yet, as tears fell and pleas echoed, the question lingered—who truly holds the power to heal when love and justice collide?

AITA for refusing to sell the stuff to my aunt who's daughter took my credit card?
‘AITA for refusing to sell the stuff to my aunt who's daughter took my credit card?’

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The original poster (OP) is dealing with the fallout after their cousin used their credit card without permission to make a significant purchase.

The OP responded by canceling the card, taking possession of the limited-edition items ordered, and refusing to give them up, leading to the cousin's distress and the aunt's anger.

The central conflict is between the OP's need to es**blish firm boundaries against theft and the family's desire to prioritize the cousin's immediate emotional comfort, especially given her autism diagnosis.

Should the OP prioritize financial accountability and boundary setting, or should they yield to family pressure and return the items to soothe the cousin?