AITA for making my friend send me a picture of her dressed so I can pick her up as she's constantly late?
In the quiet moments before the plans begin, a friendship is tested by the relentless ticking of the clock.
She loves Mia deeply, yet every hour lost to waiting chips away at her patience, turning simple outings into trials of endurance and silent frustration.
Mia’s habitual lateness is more than just a habit—it’s a barrier that strains the bond between them.
The repeated promises, the endless waiting, and the unspoken disappointment build a quiet storm, leaving her to wonder if friendship can withstand the weight of time that’s always just out of reach.
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The original poster (OP) reached a breaking point due to consistently poor time management from a close friend, leading to frustration and the imposition of a strict boundary.
The central conflict lies between the OP's need for respect regarding their time and Mia's strong negative reaction to this new condition, feeling infantilized by the request.
Was the OP justified in demanding proof of readiness before offering transportation as a necessary measure against repeated disrespect, or did this action cross a line into controlling behavior that damages a long-standing friendship?
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