AITA for demanding my coworker pay me for a ride to work after many months of giving her a free ride?
For over a year, a simple act of kindness quietly wove itself into the fabric of two coworkers’ daily routine.
Without a second thought, one offered rides without expecting anything in return, driven by empathy and an unspoken understanding of hardship, creating a fragile bond rooted in generosity and trust.
But when life’s unexpected hurdles surfaced, that bond was tested by a price tag—just twenty dollars—that shattered the unspoken contract of goodwill.
The sting of that demand unveiled a deeper emotional rift, leaving one to grapple with feelings of betrayal and the painful realization that sometimes, kindness isn’t always reciprocated in the way we hope.
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The original poster (OP) initially acted out of generosity, providing a free ride to a coworker for over a year based on a belief in helping others, especially those facing greater financial strain.
The central conflict arose when this free service was monetized unexpectedly by the coworker's boyfriend, leading the OP to set a new financial boundary for future rides, which the coworker rejected, ending the arrangement.
Was the OP petty for demanding compensation after being asked to pay a fee for a ride themselves, or was the coworker's refusal to acknowledge the OP's past generosity and support a justification for es**blishing new, transactional terms?
The core question is whether the shift from voluntary favor to required payment justified the OP's decision to monetize their own transportation service.
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