AITA for not making my son apologize for teasing my stepdaughter?

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In the fragile landscape of blended families, a storm brews beneath the surface. A woman, cautiously stepping into a new chapter with her husband Rob, carries the weight of past hurts and the hope for a united future.

Yet, his daughter Kady's cold disdain cuts deep, turning every weekend into a battlefield of silent resentment and unspoken pain.

Amidst the tension, the innocent voices of children echo with confusion and hurt—Caleb's harsh words a desperate shield against the awkwardness of their fractured bond.

As a new life is set to join this fragile mix, the family stands on the brink, yearning for acceptance but grappling with the shadows of broken trust and unresolved anger.

AITA for not making my son apologize for teasing my stepdaughter?
‘AITA for not making my son apologize for teasing my stepdaughter?’

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The original poster (OP) is facing a significant conflict involving her son's mistreatment of her stepdaughter, Kady, which was then exacerbated by her refusal to enforce an apology from her son.

The central tension lies between the OP's desire to protect her existing children and maintain fairness, and her husband Rob's expectation that their blended family structure requires Caleb to apologize for perceived bullying of Kady.

Given the escalating tensions and the OP's ultimatum to her husband regarding Kady's visits, the core question remains: Is the OP justified in demanding reciprocal apologies from Kady before allowing Caleb to apologize, or does her refusal to hold Caleb accountable for instigating the situation place an unfair burden on maintaining family peace?