AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance wants to invite guys she had a ga****ng with?
He thought their wedding plans were perfect until a shocking revelation shattered his trust—five men from her past, bound by secrets he never imagined, were on the guest list.
It wasn’t the past itself that haunted him, but the audacity of inviting those shadows to what should have been their sacred day. The discovery ignited a fierce confrontation, unraveling the foundation of their relationship.
It wasn’t about judgment of her past actions, but about respect, honesty, and the future they once dreamed of together—now hanging in the balance, threatened by a painful truth neither knew how to face.
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The Original Poster (OP) is facing a significant crisis in their engagement because their fiancée intended to invite several men with whom she had previously engaged in group s*xual activity to their wedding.
The conflict stems not from the past actions themselves, but from the OP's perception that inviting these specific individuals demonstrates a lack of respect or consideration for his feelings and the sanct*ty of their commitment.
Given the deep disagreement over the guest list and the resulting reconsideration of the engagement, the core question remains: Is the desire to include individuals tied to a sensitive s*xual history a fundamental incompatibility in relationship boundaries, or is the OP overreacting to a past situation by prioritizing these specific invitations over the s**bility of the wedding plans?
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NTA.