AITAH for taking a job that’s twice the amount I’ve ever made and would solve my financial problems
Caught between love and survival, a man faces a heartbreaking dilemma: a job offer that promises financial freedom but demands the sacrifice of precious weekends with his partner.
For years, he has battled the weight of debt and despair, seeing this opportunity as a lifeline to a better life—one that could finally bring s**bility and hope. Yet, the cost is steep.
After eight years together, his girlfriend’s ultimatum threatens to tear them apart, valuing time over money and demanding a choice that feels impossible.
In this fragile moment, he must navigate the painful crossroads where love, loyalty, and the desperate need for change collide.
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The original poster faces a severe conflict between their urgent financial recovery and their long-term partner's non-negotiable demand regarding shared weekend time.
The OP's desire to accept a life-changing job offering s**bility and necessary benefits directly clashes with the ultimatum set by their girlfriend, who prioritizes shared leisure time over higher income.
Given the stakes—financial s**bility versus relationship continuation—the core question remains: Is it justifiable for the original poster to prioritize a necessary career advancement, even if it means ending an eight-year relationship based on a strict condition set by their partner?
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