AITA for flipping out on my daughters teacher after she made the comment "Well, life isnt fair" in response to my daughter saying she was overwhelmed?

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A mother watches helplessly as her eight-year-old daughter is thrust into a whirlwind of remote learning, overwhelmed by an impossible mountain of 137 a*signments dumped on them the very first day they receive their school tablets.

The sudden, relentless pressure crushes any hope of a gentle transition, replacing learning with stress and exhaustion. From dawn until dusk, they battle through endless tasks and mandatory Zoom meetings, racing against a clock that refuses to bend.

The mother’s heart breaks witnessing her child’s early mornings and late afternoons consumed by screens, their lives reduced to a grueling cycle with no room to breathe or simply be a kid.

AITA for flipping out on my daughters teacher after she made the comment "Well, life isnt fair" in response to my daughter saying she was overwhelmed?
‘AITA for flipping out on my daughters teacher after she made the comment "Well, life isnt fair" in response to my daughter saying she was overwhelmed?’

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This one sparked a storm. The comments range from brutally honest to surprisingly supportive — and everything in between.

The original poster (OP) is clearly experiencing intense stress and frustration due to an unreasonable academic workload suddenly imposed on their eight-year-old daughter, compounded by an insensitive teacher.

The central conflict lies between the OP's protective actions to advocate for their child against perceived mistreatment and the husband's view that the OP overreacted, suggesting the teacher's burnout should warrant more patience.

Was the OP justified in immediately escalating the situation by confronting the teacher and contacting the school over the inappropriate comment, given the context of the overwhelming a*signment load, or did this reaction cross the line into being overly aggressive, as suggested by the husband?