AITA for talking to a girl in Swedish, who claimed she spoke it?
A Swedish soul far from home, living in the vastness of the U.S., found a rare connection in the warmth of shared language and heritage.
Amidst the laughter and celebration of a birthday, a simple spark ignited—an unexpected chance to speak the mother tongue rekindled a deep sense of belonging and joy.
In that moment, the distance from his homeland felt a little smaller, bridged by the soft sounds of Swedish spoken once again.
It was more than just words; it was a lifeline to roots, a celebration of ident*ty, and the magic of finding kinship in a foreign land.
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The original poster (OP) experienced genuine excitement at finding someone who claimed fluency in their native language, Swedish, but this eagerness led to a public situation where the acquaintance, Linda, was unable to meet the implied conversational standard.
The central conflict arises from the OP's reasonable desire to connect in Swedish versus Linda's perceived need to protect her public image by exaggerating her linguistic ability, resulting in her feeling embarra*sed and blaming the OP for the awkwardness.
Was the OP wrong for enthusiastically accepting an opening to speak Swedish, or was Linda responsible for inviting conversation based on a claim she could not sustain?
The debate centers on whether honesty about one's language sk**ls outweighs the potential social awkwardness created when those claims are tested in a group setting.
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