AITA for sending my family an angry email because they still speak to my ex-husband and even have him over, especially in light of his present “relationship” with a girl 20 years younger than him?

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She stands at the crossroads of heartbreak and resilience, a mother fighting to reclaim her place amidst the wreckage of a marriage unraveling under the weight of betrayal and legal battles.

Every moment is a tempest of anger, embarrassment, and sorrow, sharpened by the sting of feeling replaced by someone young and free, a cruel reminder of what she’s lost and what she still yearns to hold onto.

In the quiet desperation of a weekend meant to reconnect, her children’s rejection cuts deeper than any courtroom defeat.

Their choice to escape to a theme park rather than share time with her family speaks volumes of the fractured bonds and silent distance growing between them.

This is a story of a woman grappling not just with divorce, but with the shattering of her world and the fierce hope to piece it back together.

AITA for sending my family an angry email because they still speak to my ex-husband and even have him over, especially in light of his present “relationship” with a girl 20 years younger than him?
‘AITA for sending my family an angry email because they still speak to my ex-husband and even have him over, especially in light of his present “relationship” with a girl 20 years younger than him?’

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The community had thoughts — lots of them. From tough love to thoughtful advice, the comment section didn’t disappoint.

The original poster (OP) is experiencing deep feelings of anger, embarrassment, loss, and sadness following a recent, painful divorce.

The central conflict arises from the OP's feeling of being replaced and excluded, highlighted by her ex-husband and children spending time with her extended family alongside the new, younger girlfriend, a situation the family appears to have enabled by not inviting the OP.

Was the OP justified in sending a furious email to her entire family upon learning they spent time with her ex-husband and his new partner without inviting her, or was her reaction inappropriate given her mother’s claim that the OP’s past behavior makes her unwelcome at family events?