AITA for not letting my sister announce her pregnancy at my wedding even though I got proposed to at hers?

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Two sisters, separated by a lifetime of distance and silence, finally found a fragile bond in their adult years, sharing dreams and hopes of fairy-tale weddings.

What should have been a day of pure joy and celebration for the bride, glowing with the promise of forever, instead became a heartbreaking collision of love lost and shattered trust.

In the midst of vows and happiness, an unexpected proposal from a broken past tore through the day’s magic, leaving wounds that ran deep.

The pain of stolen moments and broken promises cast a long shadow, forcing both sisters to confront the fragile ties that bind and the cost of dreams deferred.

AITA for not letting my sister announce her pregnancy at my wedding even though I got proposed to at hers?
‘AITA for not letting my sister announce her pregnancy at my wedding even though I got proposed to at hers?’

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The original poster (OP) is caught in a cycle of past conflict stemming from an ex-partner's disruptive proposal at the sister's wedding.

While the OP made amends financially, the sister now seeks to recreate a moment of distraction at the OP's upcoming wedding by announcing a pregnancy during the sp*eches.

The OP feels this retaliation is unfair, especially toward their fiancé, leading to the ultimatum of disinviting the sister.

Is the OP justified in barring their sister from the wedding to protect their own significant event, or is accommodating the sister's desire for 'revenge' a necessary step to achieve lasting familial peace, even if it means accepting another disruption?