AITAH for not giving $25 to someone I've been talking to for 4 days?

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In just four days, a fragile connection began to form between a hopeful woman and a charming man in uniform.

She was drawn to his kindness and the promise of som**hing real, yet beneath the surface, a harsh reality was unfolding—his repeated pleas for money were testing the boundaries of trust and exposing the vulnerability of her own financial struggles.

Despite her own hardships, she stood firm, refusing to be swept away by empty promises and quick fixes.

In a world where desperation and deception often intertwine, she chose caution over compa*sion, knowing that true support cannot be measured in borrowed dollars but in genuine understanding and respect.

AITAH for not giving $25 to someone I've been talking to for 4 days?
‘AITAH for not giving $25 to someone I've been talking to for 4 days?’

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The internet jumped in fast, delivering everything from kind advice to cold truth. It’s a mix of empathy, outrage, and no-nonsense takes.

The original poster is facing a conflict where their clear personal boundary against lending money to new acquaintances clashed with the man's persistent request, escalating after only four days of communication.

Was the original poster justified in refusing financial help to someone they recently met, or did the request for a small amount of money const*tute a reasonable test of support in a nascent relationship?