AITAH for not accepting a dozen roses from my husband after my surgery?
The original poster (OP) underwent a lumpectomy procedure due to a cancer diagnosis. Her husband took her to the hospital but left the premises, stating he needed to run errands while she was being prepped for surgery.
When it was time for the surgery to begin, the OP found herself completely alone, as her husband could not be located.
After the procedure, she woke up in recovery still alone and increasingly worried until the hospital staff informed her that she would be unable to leave until the storm lockdown ended.
The situation reached a breaking point when the husband finally arrived hours later, bringing roses, only to admit he had been at a bar eating a burger. The OP is now deeply conflicted about her husband's lack of support during this critical time.
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The OP is clearly hurt and angry because her husband failed to provide essential emotional support during a frightening and significant medical event.
Her husband's decision to prioritize a casual meal over being present for her surgery and immediate recovery showed a profound lack of consideration for her needs during a crisis.
The core issue is whether the husband's complete absence and subsequent trivial excuse justify the OP's decision to completely withdraw trust in him for future medical support.
Should the OP trust his late apology and flowers, or is his documented failure to be present a sign of a deeper problem regarding his reliability in times of need?
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