AITA For telling my son I don't like him?

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A mother’s heart aches as she confronts the painful truth about her youngest son’s cruelty, a stark contrast to the values she has instilled in all her children.

Despite raising them to embrace respect and kindness, her 16-year-old’s bullying of a gay cla*smate shatters the harmony she believed they shared, forcing her to face a raw and uncomfortable reality.

In a desperate bid to mend the damage, she offers a chance for apology and understanding, only to be met with anger and defiance.

The clash between mother and son becomes a battlefield of emotions, revealing the deep struggle between love, disappointment, and the hope for change that still flickers in her heart.

AITA For telling my son I don't like him?
‘AITA For telling my son I don't like him?’

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The thread exploded with reactions. Whether agreeing or disagreeing, everyone had something to say — and they said it loud.

The original poster (OP) struggled to manage their 16-year-old son's bullying behavior, which stemmed from rejection after asking a cla*smate out.

The OP's strong desire to enforce accountability clashed directly with the son's initial refusal to apologize and his feelings of embarra*sment, leading to escalating conflict, including the OP stating they did not like their son very much.

Was the mother justified in using harsh emotional language and severe grounding tactics to force an apology for unacceptable bullying, or did her response v***ate necessary relational boundaries, ultimately pushing her son further away before the root cause of his behavior was addressed?