AITA for not being part of "my" kid's life?
Haunted by a reckless past marked by wild nights and forgotten faces, he carried the weight of years lost to chaos and pain.
Now, standing on the brink of forty, he has clawed his way back to s**bility through therapy, sobriety, and the unwavering love of a wife who sees beyond his scars. Yet, shadows of his past refuse to stay buried.
When a sixteen-year-old boy appears, claiming to be his son—born from a secret he never knew—he is forced to confront the consequences of choices long ago, challenging the fragile peace he’s fought so hard to build.
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The original poster (OP) is facing a difficult situation where his past behavior has unexpectedly resurfaced, creating emotional turmoil for a young man who believed the OP was his father.
The OP acted according to the agreement made with his wife by facilitating a paternity test but then drew a firm boundary against pursuing a relationship when the test excluded him as the biological father.
The central conflict is whether the OP has a moral obligation to comfort or maintain a relationship with the boy, K, given the emotional damage caused by the negative test result, despite not being the biological father.
Is it crueler to withdraw completely after raising expectations, or is it justifiable to maintain distance when no biological or legal tie exists?
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