AITA for refusing to be my sister's MOH after she said I can't bring my bf of 10 years and my children to her wedding because we are not married?
For over a decade, a woman has shared her life with her partner and their beloved twins, building a family filled with love and dreams.
Yet, as her sister's wedding approaches—a day meant to celebrate unity and new beginnings—she faces a gut-wrenching betrayal that threatens to unravel the very fabric of their bond.
Invited to stand as Maid of Honour, she prepared for the moment with hope and excitement, only to discover that her partner and children have been cruelly uninvited.
In a heart-shattering twist, the family she cherishes is cast aside, leaving her to grapple with the devastating choice between loyalty to blood and the love that defines her own family.
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The original poster (OP) is facing a significant conflict arising from her sister's exclusionary wedding demands, which targeted her unmarried status and her children.
The OP reacted by withdrawing her support, including resigning as Maid of Honor and refusing to surrender the custom-made dress she paid for, leading to an intense family rift.
Given the sister's public judgment of the OP's long-term relationship and children while ignoring her own similar history, should the OP stand firm on her decision to prioritize her immediate family's dignity over her sister's wedding wishes, or is the financial and logistical disruption caused by her withdrawal an overreaction?
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