AITAH for... letting som**hing happen with my wife and my nephew?

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In a fragile household where trust and boundaries once seemed clear, an unexpected tension brews beneath the surface.

A man finds himself wrestling with a creeping sense of betrayal as the closeness between his wife and his nephew—a young man he cares for deeply—shifts into som**hing unrecognizable, threatening to unravel the foundation of their lives.

What began as innocent camaraderie morphs into a haunting silence filled with unanswered questions and uneasy glances.

In the quiet of the night, when the house should be a sanctuary, the painful reality dawns: the lines between family, friendship, and desire have blurred, leaving a man lost in a storm of confusion and heartbreak.

AITAH for... letting som**hing happen with my wife and my nephew?
‘AITAH for... letting som**hing happen with my wife and my nephew?’

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The thread exploded with reactions. Whether agreeing or disagreeing, everyone had something to say — and they said it loud.

The original poster (OP) is experiencing profound emotional distress, feeling deeply betrayed because the in***elity involved his nephew, which introduces a severe breach of family trust layered onto the existing boundaries of their open marriage.

His wife is seeking forgiveness based on it being a mistake, while the nephew wishes to flee the situation, leaving the OP caught between feelings of personal betrayal and confusion over how to proceed.

Should the OP prioritize the v***ation of family integrity over the pre-existing agreement of their open marriage, or is the entire concept of their relationship structure fundamentally incompatible with maintaining necessary familial boundaries? Is forgiveness possible when the breach involves such a close, protected family member?