AITA for not letting my parents to be involved grandparents because they chose my sister's friend over me?
The user, a 25-year-old female, recently announced her first pregnancy after being estranged from her parents.
Her parents discovered the news indirectly from someone in her hometown and immediately reached out, expressing excitement about becoming grandparents and requesting involvement in her life.
The user ignored their initial attempts to connect until two days prior, when she sent a single email stating clearly that they would never know her child or be part of their lives, demanding they cease all contact.
Despite this explicit boundary, her parents have continued to reply to the email, arguing that she is overreacting and claiming the source of past conflict, Luna, is no longer an issue, leaving the user questioning her actions.
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The user is currently standing firm on maintaining complete separation from her parents due to years of unaddressed emotional a**se related to her sister's friend, Luna, which her parents prioritized over her well-being.
This results in a conflict between her need for protective boundaries for herself and her coming child against her parents' current desire for inclusion and reconciliation.
The core question remains whether cu***ng off contact entirely, especially now that she is pr****nt, is an overreaction given the parents' a*sertion that the historical issue (Luna) is resolved, or if the decade-plus of silence validates her decision to protect her new family unit from further emotional harm.
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