Update - Fiancée ate my daughter’s cupcake
The original poster (OP) shared an update regarding a conflict that began over a cupcake intended for their daughter's best friend.
After obtaining the cupcake, the OP arranged for its delivery to the friend's house since the friend was absent from school that day, which made the daughter happy.
Following this, the daughter expressed concerns that the OP's fiancée seems to dislike her, citing instances where the fiancée dismissed her attempts to share news or called her chatty.
This led the OP to arrange for their daughter to stay elsewhere to have a serious discussion with the fiancée, leaving the OP questioning the foundation of the relationship.
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The central conflict involves the OP prioritizing their daughter's emotional needs and defending her against the fiancée's admitted bullying, which has now escalated to the fiancée threatening to leave and sever contact with the OP and their future child.
The dilemma centers on whether the OP's firm stance against the fiancée's bullying of their child justifies ending the engagement, or if the fiancée's feelings of being secondary in the relationship warrant a different approach; what steps should the OP take now that the fiancée has set severe conditions regarding contact with the baby?
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