Aitah for telling my ex's gf she isn't special and he will do it to her too.
She entered marriage with hope and love, believing in the shared intimacy that binds two souls together.
But slowly, the pa*sion faded into silence, leaving her yearning for connection while he withdrew into a void of indifference, shattering the dreams she once held close.
Facing the painful truth of his disinterest and hearing the haunting echoes of his past, she found the strength to reclaim her worth and choose a life where love and desire are mutual.
In the quiet unraveling of their union, she steps forward, determined not to settle for a life half-lived.
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The original poster (OP) initiated divorce proceedings due to a persistent and significant lack of s*xual intimacy in her marriage, an issue she attempted to resolve through communication and suggestion.
Her emotional conflict now centers on whether revealing her ex-husband's pattern of s*xual avoidance to his new partner was justified by a desire to inform, or if it const*tuted an inappropriate interference that caused unnecessary harm to the new relationship.
Given that the OP was seeking to prevent the new partner from experiencing the same prolonged marital distress, was her disclosure about the ex-husband's recurring pattern of s*xual withdrawal a necessary act of warning, or was it an unnecessary escalation that crossed personal boundaries regarding his current relationship?
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