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WIBTA if lie to my husband about having a miscarriage when in reality I'll be getting an abortion?

Rachel Thompson 747 comments

Twelve years of love and loss have shaped a woman’s heart in ways words can hardly capture.

After the devastating loss of their daughter Belle, the fragile threads of their marriage were tested by betrayal and grief, only to be woven again with forgiveness and a new, complicated love for Zoe — a child born from pain but embraced with a mother’s unwavering devotion.

Yet beneath the surface of this fragile peace lies a silent struggle, as the echoes of the past haunt every tender moment. Zoe’s resemblance to her lost mother stirs deep wounds, and intimacy remains a fragile bridge slowly being rebuilt.

In the quiet hope of new beginnings, the couple stands at the crossroads of healing and longing, yearning to reclaim the future they once dreamed of together.

‘WIBTA if lie to my husband about having a miscarriage when in reality I'll be getting an abortion?’

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This Topic Lit Up the Comments Section:

It didn’t take long before the comment section turned into a battleground of strong opinions and even stronger emotions.

The original poster is facing a profound personal conflict, torn between maintaining a painful marriage under false pretenses and seeking personal truth through separation and abortion.

Her decision to secretly conceive while using contraception, followed by the realization that she no longer desires a future with her husband, places her in a difficult ethical position regarding honesty versus inflicting pain.

The core debate centers on whether lying to her husband about a miscarriage to facilitate a planned abortion and subsequent divorce is justifiable to protect his immediate feelings, or if this deception constitutes a greater betrayal of their long-standing commitment, making immediate truth the only ethical path forward.

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Rachel Thompson

Communication Specialist & Storyteller

Rachel Thompson has spent 15+ years studying the art of communication and human connection. As a communication specialist and trained mediator, she understands how words can heal or harm. Rachel's storytelling approach helps readers see themselves in complex situations and find clarity in difficult moments.

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