AITA for not wanting a friend at my dinner get together because they only eat well done beef?

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AITA for not wanting a friend at my dinner get together because they only eat well done beef?
‘AITA for not wanting a friend at my dinner get together because they only eat well done beef?’

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The community had thoughts — lots of them. From tough love to thoughtful advice, the comment section didn’t disappoint.

The original poster (OP) faced a sudden change in plans after agreeing to cook an expensive and complex dish, Beef Wellington, for a friend who paid for the ingred*ents.

When guests suggested bringing someone who required the entire roast to be cooked well-done—a preparation m**hod the OP strongly objected to for that cut of meat—the OP refused to accommodate this specific d*etary need, leading to accusations of being unaccommodating and exclusionary.

Was the OP justified in prioritizing their cooking standards and agreement with the ingred*ent payer (Brandon) over accommodating an unexpected guest's strict d*etary needs when the modification fundamentally altered the nature of the planned meal?

Or did the OP's refusal create unnecessary conflict by not finding a workable compromise for the last-minute addition?