AITA for refusing to let my husbands affair baby live with us for awhile?

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She had loved young, dreamed of forever, only to have her world shattered by betrayal and loss. Yet, through pain and heartache, she found strength to rebuild—not just for herself, but for the children who bound their fractured family together.

Their story was one of shattered trust, painful goodbyes, and the fragile hope of second chances. Now, standing at the crossroads of past wounds and present loyalty, she faces an impossible choice.

When the shadow of her husband's past threatens their hard-won peace, her fierce love for her family ignites a storm of emotions—a raw, unyielding battle between forgiveness and self-preservation.

AITA for refusing to let my husbands affair baby live with us for awhile?
‘AITA for refusing to let my husbands affair baby live with us for awhile?’

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The Original Poster (OP) is clearly feeling intense emotional distress and betrayal based on their history with their husband's ex-mistress and the resulting child.

The central conflict is the OP's absolute refusal to allow the ex-mistress's son to stay, stemming from the deep pain a*sociated with the affair, while the husband views this refusal as unfair given his commitment to the OP's child from a previous relationship.

Should the OP prioritize the protection of their emotional well-being and maintain firm boundaries against a painful reminder of past in***elity, or is the husband correct that the innocence of the child overrides the history between the parents, creating a moral obligation to help?