AITA for sleeping over at my gfs 4 nights a week making her roommate uncomfortable and causing her to flip out?
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The original poster feels distressed and responsible for the deteriorating living situation between his girlfriend and her long-term roommate, stemming from the increased frequency of his stay.
While the poster views his four-night weekly presence as a natural progression toward cohabitation, the roommate perceives it as a v***ation of her es**blished living space and boundaries.
Given the acute tension, is the poster's desire for near-daily presence justified as a necessary precursor to moving in, or should he significantly reduce his time at the girlfriend's apartment immediately to restore peace and respect the existing roommate's comfort level?
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